That's what I don't understand. When we have sex, the fact that I'm loving it delights the hell out of him, it irks me that it's not that way as far as foreplay goes.
Just come out one day all dressed in lingerie and shove his face in your crotch and tell him very sternly "Eat it..Now" dominate him and he will e yours forever.
Then it's your dude. I would rather 69 then straight up get a blow job. I am to hands on and Add to sit still. I also like to be in control. These eyes can't lie, I be high - sent from the clouds
this is a lesson to you fellas ... if you get with a female who is a freak, you better be up to her standards or don't even think about it
[quote name="basedgoddess00" post="19310197" timestamp="1389302506"]Mine apparently, I'm right there with you![/quote]Swapsies? Lol just kidding . But yeah my missus knows, she hasn't always been like it and it upsets her too, its not exactly hard to put a hand down someones boxers and get the cock hard and ready is it lol. She thinks its her pill that fucked with her sex drive... Me, meh I dunno, I think it could be that and maybe a self confidence thing. She's alright, i just have to get it started most the time and do a lot of the work, but I enjoy doing the pleasing haha.
11 hours of work a day could be the reason. But, he should at least be putting in the work on Sundays. There's nothing better than eating a nice, clean, well maintained pussy. As long as it doesn't stink really bad.
He likes to be in control. & I'm not going to get anything from it if I think he's not enjoying it...... Do majority of guys actually enjoy a dominating female?
[quote name="sapien" post="19310362" timestamp="1389303979"]maybe hes a closet homosexual[/quote] This. No but really, maybe lay off him sexually for a little. Maybe a week or two. In all honesty, guys do get tired of repetition and constistency. That sounds bad..but its not as bad as it seems. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I337 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
All guys love control. But once in a while it's nice for a female to take the reigns. My girl used to be so timid before I corrupted her innocence
Maybe you're right. I've thought about it before, (mindset of a freak) but I just never really knew how he'd react.
[quote name="basedgoddess00" post="19310412" timestamp="1389304311"]It's only repetition because he does the same shit every time..[/quote]This is a long shot but does he possibly have a porn addiction? I know that when i was younger I had a pretty gnarly porn addiction and was never in the mood for my gf..you just really need to sit him down, fully clothed, and possibly in a public place (so he is forced to reasonably and calmly talk it out) and tell him exactly how you feel.Maybe try typing, or hand writing what you want to say. I feel that if i try to have a 'talk' with my gf just off the top of my head, i forget alot of important details that needed to be brought up. Typing it out ahead of time will help you hit key points when you are talking to him. Hope i can help some!Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I337 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
If hes smart , or secure with both your and his body, he would be delighted! I think you guys need to explore your sexuality more. Trust isnt just about trusting you guys won't fuck each other over , it also deals with trusting each others bodies enough to fuck and explore new things . Prudence will eventually lead to boredom. Boredom leads to distance . Distance is means to an end .