So because I'm straight, that means I can walk around, slap girls on their asses, act like a pig, talk about blow jobs and anal and screwing them and then defend my actions with "I'm straight, better respect me!!" They can be gay, but it doesn't mean they're right in everything they do and portray. The gay community is much more encompassing than just the retro 80's flamboyant night club orgy members. There are more normal gay people who lead casual not stereotypical lives who don't like the flamboyant ones because they give them a bad name.
I try to judge people as individuals. I've met "flamboyant gays" who were incredibly interesting, intelligent people, and I've met some who are just obnoxiously annoying. It has nothing to do with them being gay, and everything to do with their individual personalities.
me, ive dated the "flamboyant" guys. theyre assholes. all they want is for the world to know their gay.
yeah, GODDAMN these people who think they can just GO AROUND, EXPRESSING THEMSELVES. the nerve!! what do they think this is, a free country? so because it was two guys making out you left? would you have left it had been two girls making out? doubtful. a guy and a chick making out? also doubtful. didn't wanna watch two dudes make out? avert your eyes, go smoke a cig outside- whatever! it's not like they were trying to offend you, they were just living their life exactly as you do. just because they aren't the same as you doesn't make it gross or bad you're better than that weebie. since when is the city so intolerant? since when are stoners so fucking judgemental? yeah, some gay guys may put on a sort of "act" to sound more effeminate and girlie, but do you really think every flamboyant homosexual out there is just a big phony? that is just how they are. people have different personalities and ways of acting, get the fuck over it. im not a big fan of ditzy girls, but do you see me making a thread to bitch about how they should just stop being the way they are and offending me? the world does not revolve around each individuals personal preferences. we don't get to pick our personality, and we sure as hell don't get to pick the personalities of our fellow man. so if you don't like the way they act, don't hang out with them. it's that simple.
What? That doesn't even make sense. If you walk around acting like a pig and slapping girls on the ass, then I would think YOU were an asshole. But I wouldn't transfer your bad personality on to every straight male on the planet.
I won't pass judgment on you, but you're naive if you think ALL gays are equal because they're gay. There are different TYPES of gays. The normal gays which are the less annoying ones (which this thread is directed towards) are casual men who don't portray themselves in an obnoxious, "attention whore" eque way who FAKE, FAKE their lisp and over accentuate it; who do the whole hand flip "Queer Eye" act. It's an act, and if you think that just because they like penis that somehow that's how they were created, you're naive. It's an act to get attention because there are normal acting gay people. They don't act like women and try to fit into the sterotypical persona of homosexual. You're more closed minded in thinking that anyone who doesn't like something about a gay person is a biggot. I am ALL FOR gay pride, and the ability and rights to sleep with whatever sex you want. But the flamboyant gay men are attention whores who piss off a LOT of my normal gay friends because they accentuate this annoying overly slutty persona of a fashion princess simply to gain ATTENTION and tell the world that they're gay.
I think all PEOPLE are equal. Yes, there are gays who are more feminine then others. So what? Get the fuck over it. There are a masculine traits that are just as bad (if not worse). People are individuals. You keep saying "they" and "them" as though it's all one personality. If you have a problem with someone because they are too flamboyant, then at least recognize that it is YOUR problem. You don't seriously expect someone to change their personality to make you comfortable, do you?
I dunno about all this. I have no problem with gay people male or female. Its their life and if they wanna go that way then let them get on with it. However i have to admit i had the exact same attitude towards these flamboyant gay stereotypes until i 'actually' chatted to one. Every time i saw a guy acting in this over the top flamboyant way i would look in disgust, wondering how people put up with these guys. Until one night me and my friends met up with a new group of people some girls, some guys. One guy fit the description of the obvious 'gay guy' and i imeditaly avoided him. Throughout the course of the evening i began noticing how popular he was. Making people laugh, buying them drinks and generally being a funny guy. Eventually we spoke and i ended up really getting on with him, In fact he was fucking hilarious. OK so he was gay and OK he let everyone know he was gay in a very over the top way but that was what was so funny about him. He cracked me up! After that night i completely changed my thoughts. I'll give EVERYONE a chance no matter what thier personality/sex/gender/race because i relised everyone if different, even if they fit a stereotype.
So that argument should pass for an ignorant red-neck racist homophobic cross burner? We should all accept him as he is because he wants to be that way? Get over yourself and drop the God complex.
I don't think I should even attempt at writing a response to this thread because I couldn't touch all the points as well as you did flower. And since I can't give you any more rep, just consider this smiley face as pure karma points A lot of you guys say you're fine with the gay community and it doesn't bother you, but then you go on rants saying how they shouldn't be making out in public, or how they shouldn't express themselves because it annoys you... Well if some guy wants to dress up in a pink diaper, put a pacifier in his mouth and then get spanked with a leather switch while he screams out for his daddy to give it to him... Well, that's really no dirt on your shoulders now is it? Can "flaymboyant" gays go a little over board and be a little too graphic? Sure, I can understand that but at the same time, let a guy who has probably spent most of his childhood in the closet and most of his life dealing with prejudice.. well, just let him be him.
where are you gettin a god complex? no ones should be okay with a croos burning queer beating red neck, becasue hes lashing out and hurting people... being destructive. but if two guys are drunk at a party and want to connect a little, thats a whole nother ball game. learn how to use analogies properly please.
I am using the analogy properly. Don't confuse GAY with a GAY attention whore. Obviously you don't have very many gay friends. The majority of gay people don't like the flamboyant gay people BECAUSE they perpetuate the main stream media's stereotypical ideal of what gay people represent. Fashion oriented male whores who wear make up, talk about sex 24/7, flip their wrists and have a fake lisp. It's an act, and just like the macho guidos, jerk ass ganster, wankster douche bag assholes who give normal guys a bad name, and slutty sterotypical girls who give normal girls a bad name, these type of gay people give average gay people a bad name. You're naive if you think all gay people are the same. That's your misconception based on lack of information and understanding of the homosexual community. Don't give me the "we're all created equal" crap. We are all created equal, but people make their own choices which in turn HURT other people. I'm not talking shit on GAY people, I'm talking shit on the fakers who do it for attention and prerpetuate the false image of that being homosexual actually means. There is more depth than the comedic flamboyant gay dude who makes jokes 24/7, keeps up with fashion mags and party's all night.
Oddyball, what I am trying to get across to the OP and now you, is that not all of those types of people are "fake" as you seem to think they are. That is just how some homosexual males are- just like there are different kinds of "straight personalities", well big suprise, they have differences in how they think, act, and speak as well! i tried to press the +rep button, but apparently i have to spread it around before giving it to you again, girl you're very well spoken! and thank ya Foop
dont call me naive please. not all gay people are the same. trust me. ; ] im just saying sure there are the chill gay guys that everyone likes, and yeah, there are the attention whores who want the party to be in there pants. im just saying, that you no better than anyone else if you think you can just go around pointin out the flaws in everyone. thats who they are, theyre not fake, they just have a poppy attitude that bugs a lot of people, hell it bugs me sometimes. but everyone has flaws, im sure theres things that bug other people about you, but its not fair of you to think that you can go around pointing out other peoples flaws and get away with it. peace\ \/ /
You are completely missing the point. There is a difference between someone who goes out of their way to be hateful towards others, and someone who is just living their life in a way that makes you uncomfortable.
WTF? make me uncomfortable? im gay honey. chances are, i was one of the guys on the couch. =P im defending the gays in the stament you quoted me from. but i can see how oyu misunderstood
shit... I'm sorry. I meant to quote Oddyball and his post about cross burning racists. post has been fixed