OK, my baby is outside in a 10'' pot in my veggie garden. Marijuana is not legal in my state for cultivating or recreational use, so it needs to stay in a pot so that it can be moved, if need be. I started it from a seed that I managed to find in a bag of mids that I had gotten. Now, these mids are some of the absolute best mids I have ever smoked. For about a year, every bag that I get from this seller seems to be from the same batch. It tastes the same, same look, same quality, same potency, etc. So, when I found a seed (which rarely ever happens), I decided to try and grow my own plant to, first of all, see if I could grow it and then, eventually, see if I could harvest anything from it. I started prepping the seed by wrapping it in a wet paper towel until it started to sprout. I then planted it in a small 2'' pot and sat it on my kitchen counter under a florescent light fixture under my top cabinets, about 2 ft. above the pot. That was roughly 2.5 months ago....maybe even closer to 3?. After it got its first 4 leaves, I moved it outside in my vegetable garden. I have been giving it water and nutes regularly. [Nutes pictured below]. My plant is now a little over 3ft tall. It's staring to bush out, as well. I haven't done any training to it. I do pull off any ragged looking or yellow leaves that are at the bottom so that no energy is focused on them. Anyway, I have a few questions and I would be so grateful if I could get some advice from growers that are way more experienced than I am. OK, I give my plant the same nutes that I give my garden (first time gardener, too!!) First question: Are the nutes [pictured] I'm giving good for marijuana plants? It seems to be healthy and all, but I wanna be sure that what I'm feeding it isn't going to hurt it in the long run. Second question: Is it male or female...or too early to tell? Third question: Is it possible, since I've barely ever found any seeds in any of my bags, that everything that I have gotten from this dude in the last year, have been from mostly female plants and this too could be female because of that? Fourth question: Is this plant an indica or sativa? The mids that I get (where the seed came from) boost my energy, completely destroys my depression and suppresses my chronic nausea. Fifth question: How do you know when to switch to a 12/12 light schedule? Does it have to be "bushy" or could I do that now? Due to the legality of growing or even possessing this God-given, amazing herb, 3 ft is as tall as I can go outside without being easily seen by my neighbors. My neighbor on the right is a school teacher and my neighbor on the left is my pastor and his wife. (Yeah, I know, ballsy, right? lol) Sixth question: Is there any way that I can stop it from getting any taller and just fill out more without damaging the plant? I've looked into "training" methods, but to be honest, it's all a little overwhelming to me. I've never attempted any of the methods before and everything that I read said not to attempt them until you have successfully grown a few plants. So, anyway, those are my questions and concerns for now. I'm sure I'll have more later, but those are the ones that are plaguing me currently.