tl dr-My fiance thinks relationships with weed never work, I need examples of relationships with weed that work. If your in one please reply Long story short, I'm American she's Aussie. When she was living with me in America we smoked a lot, then when she went back to Australia because of visa stuff for a couple months we got into a fight and told me to stop smoking because long term relationships can't work when someone smokes weed. I'm living with her now and i havent smoke in 40 days. I'm obviously new to this country so I dont have many friends and the ones that invite me out always wanna smoke. Not being able to occassionally smoke is stopping me from making friends, and her only reason she doesnt like it now is because she is stuck in the believe that long term relationships cant work. So if you are in a marriage or a long term relationship or know of anyone else that is please reply so I can show her it is possible. Please, I need your help.