ok, so heres how it goes, one of my friends girlfriends likes me, n quite frankly i like her too cuz she's beautiful, inside and out but heres the dilemna, its my friends gf still, but he puts her down n lets his friends be ignorant to her and she always tells me she wants to dump him but she doesnt want to be single... ok, so my friend treats her like shit, she told me today i'm the only person she wants to be with "forever", so therfor if me and her hooked up i'd treat her good the way she deserves to be treated and she knows it thats y she likes me so yea, waht do u think, is it wrong of me to like this girl and want to make her happy because her bf is constantly making her mad or depressed, or should i do it because i know i could make her life so much better
you are a good man i can tell already, no its not wrong to want the best for someone especially if its a girl. if you notice that she isnt being given the respect that she deserves then by all means step up and give her that respect and devotion she needs. BUT!! be prepared to get into a squabble with your pal. i dont know how good of friends you are but in all my dealings with friends girls and shit, you better be sure about this. and you better be sure thats what both of you are prepared to accept. and dont try throwing it in his face that you are the better man cuz she is the one she went to after him. even if you think you are. you may very well be but he will take it very personally and you may find yourself with out this friend for a while until you ad this girl break up. and when she says forever, you better be set on this girl cuz it seems that she doesnt want to let go and if you want her as much as she wants you then you better not fuck it up to make he go to one of your friends. then she would look like a slut and i know you want to preserve her image, because you care for her already. so in the long run, you are doing the right thing by caring but morally on a friendship level thats your decision to make. Good Luck
i hate reading while burnt. i always forget what im readin about. do what you feel is right. :smokin:
Hey there Neg, I know its been a while since we talked, rememeber me? Well anyway, back to the dillemma, there is supposedly an unwritten rule that says that its not ok to date your friends ex or wahtever, but if he is treating her like crap, I think it is up to her to make the decision to dump him. She is free to chose to date whomever as do you. but be prepared to have a very pissed off ex friend, so weight your options carefully and dont rush into things. Best of luck and keep us updated if you can/want to.
man, your best bet is to somehow get them to break up, wait a couple months, then ask your buddy if you can date her. i mean, you're obviously friends with both of them, so he can't get mad if you talk/hang out, just keep it pg till you get the green light, assuming this is a friend you want to keep. i've seen friendships of 15 years go down the drain because of a girl, so know what you're getting yourself into. it's probably him or her.
women are a funny thing man, they can ruin friendships, and cause irreprable damage. You gotta sit down and feel out whats more important to you. are you gonna be the good friend, or the good boyfriend type. like my sig says no right or wrong just different
Been there and done that. I didnt lose just one friend, I lost 2 in the end. The guy and the girl. Think hard on this one. Some girls just go from friend to friend,.