feeling real down, guys

Don't go watching the news anytime soon, they might as well call it The Bad News. It's not just religions either, coloured parents forbidding interracial dating.. real fucked up
Answer this if you want, did you go throuhg a bad breakup yourself?

 

Don't let someone else's convinctions dictate the way you live your life. If they can't get past something as trivial as religion then it just isn't worth your time my friend.

Keep your head up man, much love.

 

Only someone that doesnt understand religion would think a christian god doesnt want you marrying someone just because the person in question isnt of the same faith.. thats just the church.

 

oh man, there are so many girls out there, you can find one just as good or better who isn't as small minded.

 

To some, religion is everything. The afterlife.. Heaven or Hell.. eternally..
You can't blame them. Think about it for a second, meditate. Put yourselves in their shoes.. Is there more to life than just living, being healthy, smoking herbs, making money and feeding the poor? That's for you to answer. Gain that peace of mind, my friend, you will see the light. All in all, I wish you luck in this uncalled for time.

 

I've heard it all know.Religion as a way to stop dating someone,that propostorus.

If she brought it up once she gonna do so again,just drop it now while your still down.

Cause it would really suck if eveything turns blue again then all of a sudden it turns grey again.

No girl is worth felling depressed over,especially if it's over religion.....

You know what to do....

 

Hey dude, my girl is exactly like that, and let me tell you something, if you don't want to be hurt, end it. If she really loves you that much she wouldn't let religion get in the way. Talk to her about it, try to get her to forget about religion and focus on you two being together, if she doesn't do that she's not worth it. I'm not trying to say shes a bad lady or anything, but I'm trying to look out for you, relationships can hurt, hell, people can go crazy, or kill themselves over it.

Theres more women out there, and your young, you can either wait for it to come to an end or you can find your soul mate. But the first thing I recommend is talking to her about it, tell her how serious you are, and see if shes on the same level.

You're probably going to read this and say "Hell no I can't do that I love her" But hey man it's your choice, I just really hate when people go through with shit like this, for your own better.. end it if it doesn't work out soon. If she really loves you, she'll come back.

 

No man, you're exactly right, love is a strong emotion, and fucking with it is like putting a bullet in your head. Hey man, if you need someone to talk to PM bro.

 

I don't think you're blowing this out of proportion man. There is nowhere in any part of the Christian faith that says a Christian can't date a non-Christian. Differences are what make people beautiful man. You have to respect her decision to change her life like this, but trust me, you'll find someone better suited to you.

I was in almost the exact same situation in high school. My girlfriend dumped me cause I wasn't pious enough. Almost a week later she started dating this guy who had asked her out many times when we were dating, and she constantly assured me she didn't like him. Anyway, it sucked. I thought I was going to die. I was so depressed. And then one day, I was just over her. And a few weeks later I met a girl who was way more amazing than she was in every aspect.

It sucks now, and, believe me, every guy who's ever been through a breakup with a serious girlfriend knows, you're convinced you'll never find someone who was like her. That is true, you could search the world and you wouldn't find someone who was like her, but breakups have a tendency to push you to grow and evolve. You'll find someone else, who is different than her, but matches you more closely.

Don't sweat it, man. I would be just as pissed as you, were I in your situation. Just stay logical and rational, and don't be mean or lashing at her and you'll always have the upper hand . Good luck.

 

religion is stupid and should be banned world wide, it's useless.

 

well you could always use the ill convert for you. itll be romantic and keep your relationship going.

or you could go with the option, list out everything youve done all the things you share in common and ask her is all that not longer real just because i dont believe in the same god? but thats more iniciating a break up with an ultimatum

 

^ as mentioned above if religion is a big deal to her you could always convert if you planned on marrying her or something. I've got to say that the guys I've been with all are pretty much the same Irish or Italian, all Catholics, whether or not they currently practice, when I get married, I wanna get married in church, so being with someone with a similar spiritual background is important to me. Maybe that's the way she feels?

 

I feel its important to share the same religious background.... but there is no way I would give up someone just to be with someone else in the same religion. In the bible it does talk about being "equally yoked," but I think that people take that the wrong way. Sure it's better for a christian and a christian to marry vs a muslim and a christian. The love can be there but if you have kids you open up those kids to different religions and the parents might want to go seperate ways with the kids. It's not good... I went through a mild form of this. My mom has never been in church and really doesn't have any plan to. My dad is very religious and thinks our problems will be cured if my mother goes to church. My brother and I have always been torn between what to do. The religion to me stands true but I believe people have to choose and I haven't chosen to follow. Even if I was going to get into religion hardcore I wouldn't break up with my girlfriend because I love her. I refuse to go out with someone just from a religious stand point.

Also... I have a question. People think it's so wrong for someone to practice religion yet people partake in stuff that is practicly a religion (in the sense that people do it a lot and think about it a lot), such as Marijuana, that they wouldn't give up for anyone. So my question is, why do you expect someone to change something you don't like but wouldn't quit something for them? I am not calling anyone out or trying to be nasty, just a question.

 

OP a lot of the blades here have given you some great advice, I don't think I can really add too much more to this but I hope things work out the best for YOU. I personally think that Love and Religion are two separate things, its good to agree on things from a moral standpoint but just becuase you two dont share the EXACT same beliefs or practice what you believe the same way should not make a difference when it comes to love, I don't want to bring you down dude, far from it but it seems like she's just not the girl for you, and that she already has her mind made up.


I know that it hurts right now but wiht time the sting will lessenm and then hey, you might find someone else... who knows?

Just dont shut yourself out to the possibility of finding someone special again, it can and WILL happen, it just takes time.

I hope you feel better, and feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to.