Feeling blue? this will cheer you up

Ever feel like life in general hates you and most of the planet is out to get you? read below! It could be worse you could be me


Wifey went out at about 10p.m. to "have dinner with a friend"(a dude but atleast that one is gay but that's prolly not where she is.. i can only hope she's in bed with a gay man...)
It's now what 6:30 A.m.? tjord she still isn't home. this wouldn't bother me if i hadn't just proven she slept with and is most likely still sleeping with another guy.
On top of that she often had the "other dude" over and tried to get me to be friends with him while she was @#%$ing him??? :/


:WARNING: rant ahead

ARG i'm such an idiot. you think i would of learned my lesson after the last one but noooo. i was sworn to the life of a hermit. Happily sitting in my apartment 20 mins from the beach/islands and then she came over the internet and found me. I gave up my easy government job and apartment and moved back south to be with her. so lets summerize. i've lost
1. my car(reverse at 40mph is bad mmmk wifey?)
2. most of my friends(like omg don't hang out with them or i make life hell for a week)
3. my apartment/job
4. my brother(he recently moved to within 15 miles of where i used to live)
5. my "i have no regrets" track record
6. any part of me that wasn't jaded
7. all but one of my hobbies(haven't smoked in 2 years)

so i went from living 20 mins from islands with a sweet job and a decent apartment full of things like my way comfy orange chair and comfy sofa. Having a few good friends plenty of money a car and all the weed I could eat.

to

Living in mums spare bedroom(didn't even manage to end up in a basement like a self respecting nerd) with no job, no money, no car, no friends, no hobbies, no weed, no apartment, no beach and pretty much no hope.

gg woman you owned my life into oblivion in 1 short year.


Bad Things she does
1. She lies constantly.
2. She bitches and bitches about me not having a job and once i get one bitches at me for having to get up 30 mins early to pick me up from work.(if she even comes to pick me up haven't found out yet)
3. She cheated on me and brought the guy over to my house(often) and tried to get me to be frieds with him. Lied to my face even after i showed her documents where she went on and on about how much she loved his cock.
4. she makes $10 more an hour than i do and constantly tries to get me to give her money and pay all the bills.
5. she has been the single most destructive force to ever enter my life.
6. she's a drama whore and demands constantly that i do stupid shit(like hand her something that's right fucking next to her) just to bother me.
7. If i like something she instantly hates it, even if she liked it before she found out i liked it
8. She stays out all night all the fucking time with her "friends"
9. All of her friends are annoying as fuck
10. I think she might be totally insane...
11. She blew out my engine then took the $400 i got for it's corpse. She's taken all my christmass and birthday money and every penny i've ever had.
12. She has a oddly large amount of money stashed away and takes it from my broke ass to add to her stash.

Good things about her
1. She's pretty.
2. When she's not bitching about something, lieing to my face or making up bullshit drama to demand my attention she's not so bad to be around.
3. she makes phat money.
4. Sometimes she'll shut the hell up and just watch tv with me.

The sad thing is i'm still trying to see if i can forgive her but so far it's been a bandaid on a broken dam. She has been "better" recently but i now have a job where i'm gone all night. And even if i do let her stay for now it's only a matter of time untill she gets bored or pissed with/at me and fucks me over again.

I've just gotten a job and should be back on my feet in the next couple of months but i'm pretty sure if i take her with me she's just going to wait untill it's a good time for her. File for divorce and take all the stuff i just got back after loosing it all because of her :/

PS Don't get Fucking Married(Ever)

Heh the only friend I managed to hang on to called me one day and she was like "everytime i start to get down about my life i just think about yours and it's not so bad anymore". She's cool though and that made me laugh pretty hard

And no i'm not boohooing or looking for sympathy. My life makes most situations look better. Figure it might put some problems into prospective. Also i've made it through some serious crap through out my life. Never let it get you down. Change what you can to better the situation and keep your chin up m8s. Eventually if you make it through enough of these types of trials your friends might nick name you "the Zen master" due to your inner calm and strength

 

I <3 you guys

(and thanks for the puppies lol)

 

Heh yah and most of them are stark raving mad or demand you completely change who you are just for the privilage of their company. Or both or worse.

 

"First of all, marrige does change people, I speak from that experience.

A marrige is a partnership, with 2 people who have decided to go through life together....theres ups and downs just like everything else."

Yes but usually there is only one of the two that's understands/gives a flip about this and the other fits somewhere on the above list :/

They are all cute and "fluffy" and pretty and normal untill that ring goes on then the claws and fangs come out and the real party starts. Usually one does all the giving and the other all the taking/screwing over untill the "nice one" gets tired of it and lawyergeddon begins or the nice one is to weak/kind to break it off untill much later than he/she should and suffers much through the duration for the kindness and forgiveness.

The first stage is being compatible. The second is willingness to stay compatible and give/take somewhat equally. The third is Respect on both sides of the relationship for the marriage and eachother. odds are better for being hit by a bus than these three lining up these days. 80% divorce rate...People are flipping evil/crazy these days of both genders. Just stay alone get some nice stuff and save yourself the flogging.

Aaaand While compromise is all fine and good both people have lines. things that are simply going to stay. Usually the loon of the pair demands you give up all the things that make you you while giving up nothing in return.
I'm going to play video games and enjoy the internet. I'm going to smoke from time to time. I'm going to keep my dog.
She's going to keep staying out all night all the time and fuxing dudes and constanly bitching and... yah.. anyway this is how most relationships end up. And why so many of them end.
Before i found out about her little sexy fun time all i had was the internet and the dog..then i came to realize i'd given up all my friends most of my hobbies and most of what made me, me. I've since told her about a few issues "if you don't like it there's the door". I will never again make the mistake of losing myself to appease someone else because you'll usually end up with nothing but you in the end no matter what you do.

*edit*
and happy 420th post

 

It sounds like you may perhaps be one of the few girls out there who gets it. I hope someday you find your other half in the crowded sea of loons and evil people. You can't be the only sane girl and I can't be the only sane guy. Even lower odds of that than the bus