alright story summed up. me and my girl got into a petty argument last Tuesday. (so 7ish days ago). it was nothing big, me and her are long distance. anyhow, night is going perfectly well and we're having fun. and i had plans to take her out to a surprise dinner the next night, kinda just a my treat because its been a while, you know romantic chit. so i say "hey, we're going to dinner tomorrow alright." out of no where, she replies "dont tell me what to do." kinda caught off guard i joke back, "lol i aint telling you what to do, i wanna take you out to dinner tomorrow." she replies "no your being rude, you try and schedule my day without any care towards what i want to do.' so im like alright chill out, we wont go then. i carry on with what im doing and she says "what now your gunna sit and be a sob about it?" (im literally just watching tv, not a single phuck given." so i reply, hey why dont you quit with the attitude, i just helped you all night setting up contacts for you and talking to people for you (she was working on a public project and needed to get her page out so i talked to people, alot of big people for that matter, she should be kissing my feet for that but idc), and i just offered you dinner. then she signed off skype. im thinking ok.. so i call her back, she denies, i call her again, she denies. so i say back to her your going to really be this immature, im just gunna to get bed, night. then she says "fuc* you seriously, and signs off... im thinking aight, i rly did nothing wrong so i dont give a phuck and went to bed. next day i hear nothing back no texts nothing. this goes on for two days, not a word only "goodnight" when she went to bed. so for the next few days i try every day needlesy to talk things out with her, wondering why she blowing out proportion. she says to be "you never listen." i basically tell her (after days of this on going) if " its a matter of us talking this out so this relationship can work. because i have done alot of thinking about us lately, and right now what we have to do is talk this out. to each other. because i want our relationship to work out, but in order to do that we have to understand each other and listen to EACH other. or this simply wont work. because i really dont have to deal with this, i need a girl who can just be lay back and chill and not get an attitude every two days and make a weekly extravganza of fighting...she still doesn't apologize for cursing at me and acting immature. few days pass, still same b.s . i just taking it day by day not rly giving a phuck because i'd rather just be doing my own thing until she calms down. today. im fed up with it, i had a long as* day and came home, hopped on facebook. i haven't talked to her in almost two days and she goes "so your going to start listening now? because i can't take you not listening anymore." i reply. listen, i listened to you and gave you space for two whole days to clear your head. i want this relationship to work but you have to start treating me with respect and not throwing every guilt and blame on me. and start accepting where your wrong or else this wont work. the only way for us to get this relationship back on track is for us to understand each other. she then says "ok fine. ill listen to you, but i have nothing to say." so im like ok ok, im gunna hit the gym then we'll talk tonight. after the gym i get online and see a message from her "you did the exact same thing that pissed me off initially." im like .. WTF this chit again.. so i wait it out an hour and get online and say "we need to talk." she replies "im in a bad mood." i reply generiously, look i know we've been at each others necks for the past week but im your boyfriend and i still care about you, tell me whats going on i want to help." she replies back.. "I just said I dnt wanna talk! Just listen for once Dnt say u do wen u dnt! " so i say back to her " stop telling me to listen listen listen. im your boyfriend, im here for you. i kinda expected to talk about what's been going on between us the past few days, given the fact you told me, you'd be willing to talk it out. for once. can you chill down the attitude and realize im just here. talking to you. like a relationship should be" she hasn't replied back for 30 minutes. thank you for reading first of all. second of all, wtf do i do. she has no respect for me. never accepts being wrong, literally is draining me to the limit bc she wants me to accept all guilt and blame when literally i done nothing to her. i always gave her respect but never took b.s from her. i dont play games, i want normal relationships. not ones where every two days i get bullshi*. the thing is though, when im around her, its perfect harmony. help a bro out.