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feel like a total arse

Discussion in 'General' started by bhoward3, Jul 30, 2006.

  1. #1 bhoward3, Jul 30, 2006
    well as some of you may already know the other day my mom found smoking goods and other drugs in my room from when i was away at school
    she recently had neck surgery and is still wearing a brace
    and when she confronted me she just made me feel like a total piece of garbage
    just lowering my self esteem with every blow she could possibly get in to my ego
    so now i just feel like i am such a fuck up
    i do good in school and am polite and help her out a lot
    ive been doing stuff around her house lately since she cannot
    such as putting up a fence
    mowing the lawn weekly
    all for free
    so tell me, am i really as bad as she's making me out to be for this stash she found?
    what can i do to make it up to her? i was thinking maybe get her a gift? but i dont want to sound materialistic to buy back her trust
    help me out guys thanks
     
  2. #2 Opivy, Jul 30, 2006
    Don't listen to someone putting you down. She's angry, and people resort to such tricks when angry..

    It will take time, so just wait it out. She'll forgive you, just be nice about it no matter how mean she might be.
     
  3. #3 Perfekt, Jul 30, 2006
    talk to her about it, just tell her why you decided to smoke and that you understand if you dont want her smoking in her house because she can get in trouble for it, but that you thought it was unfair that she put you down so much for something that the only thing wrong with it is that its illegal......
     
  4. #4 Poobles, Jul 30, 2006
    Unless the other drugs were like, crack and you were sucking people off for it, then no, you aren't a bad person. If you are, then so are the rest of us. And I'd like to believe there are mostly geniuenly nice people here that are good at heart. It's just a mom feeling sorry, 'cause she feels she failed. She feels she didn't do a good job raising you. That's just my .2 obviously.
     
  5. #5 Predator1, Jul 31, 2006
    This is exactly how my parents reacted. Just relentlessly smashing the self-esteem down into a tiny little pile of shit.

    Dont let it get to you. If youre upset, honestly, it's warranted. But you're never as much of a fuckup as the parents want you to think you are. If you can help it, dont show your emotions. Show your parents that no matter how little they believe in you (They DO believe in you, they dont want you to know it), that you still believe in yourself.
     
  6. #6 bhoward3, Jul 31, 2006
    see thats the kind of stuff im lookin for
    thanks predator
     
  7. #7 scoobydooby67, Jul 31, 2006
    kick her in the nuts.

    if that doesnt work then tell her how responsible you are with it.

    if that doesnt work kick her in the nuts again.
     
  8. #8 ...Spliff!, Jul 31, 2006
    LOL! @ Scooby!

    This forum is filled with some funny ass people!
     
  9. #9 HighHaze, Jul 31, 2006
    parents just dont understand
     

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