Sup Blades, I got a question for ya. So, last weekend I was at this party and there was this girl I ended up talking to. So we're talking and it turns out she smokes too. So we go outside and smoke some weed and stuff and just talk. Well she was really cool and everything and I liked her but the thing is she's kinda fat. She has a pretty face and everything its just shes sort of fat. Anyways me and her are going to see a movie tomorrow and stuff. The thing is I'm 18 and I've never been in like a serious relationship. I haven't even really had a girlfriend of any sort since 8th grade. It's not that I'm desperate or anything it's just I guess I'm kind of shallow and I'm worried that ya know if I start going out with this chick what my friends and everyone is gonna say. I'd like to say I don't care but honestly I'm somewhat insecure and I do care even if I say I don't. I guess I just made this thread sort of just to see what you guys have to say about it. Should I go for it or not?
If you like her, then who cares what your friends think? How would you feel if the roles were reversed and her friends didn't like you for some superficial reason?
Yeah I agree with what you're saying. Thanks guys made me feel a lot better. This is why I love Grasscity. You got the coolest people on here.
Yea man, your friends won't be dating her so it doesn't matter what the hell they think. Besides, your friends are the people who wont give you shit to begin with... Badass sig, by the way
Yeah dont worry about what your friends say, if you dig the chick and she digs you, then dig together ya know? Also if your friends decide to make fun of you just play in to it, dont get defensive and that will help with the insecurity.
Yeah dude if you like her just go for it, it dont matter what they think, besides with a gf thats smokes everythings alot more chill.
My advice: break the date and look in the mirror. You admit to being shallow but seem utterly oblivious as to what the consequences of being like that are. Being shallow means you don't date "fat chicks" but you're always ashamed of your girlfriend, that's really sorta sad bro. The fact that you put the opinions of others above your own happiness probably means you may never really find it. But good luck with that.
who gives a fuck. your life, your happiness, when the time comes to die its you thats gonna die, if you like her fuckin go for it and never look back
That's really fucked up that you won't date a girl who's not anorexic because you don't want to be made fun of by your friends.
Yeah. Well I don't really think my friends would say anything really. They're really cool and nice guys. They aren't dicks or anything. I guess I just worry about what people think sometimes. And I do really like her and think she's cool so I don't know why I'm worried about this. And yeah I know I should stop worrying about what other people think.
Dude, fatty girls are the best. If you don't think she's attractive, let her hook up with someone else who thinks she is.
I'd say go on the date. You may end up really liking this girl. If your friends are really your friends than why would they judge you regardless of who you date? If you can't get over the weight thing though, I'd suggest ending it before it starts.
Who cares man if you like her then go for it.... fat chicks have to try harder to get people to like them so you never know, this girl could be the biggest freak you'll ever get in bed with. She might make your toes curl up.