Every time I try to quit pot I can't.

I dont know maan, it depends on the person really. Some people can smoke there whole lives and be cool with a family and job and still smoke bud. Like my parents, both of them have good jobs and have money and they smoke alot. So do all of their friends basically. Weed shouldnt be looked at as a negative, because we all know its not. Expecially you should know that i think. Outsiders who dont smoke maybe can think things like that simply because they dont know any better.

 

i think that stigma is evaporating. in 10 years when all the old cronies in the whitehouse hit the dirt we will see changes. I believe it will be like it is now, maybe a little more lax with the lasws, but the stigma is evaporating because of numbers alone. SO many smoke, it not like you can pick out a small part of the population and hate on them. You woul dhave to hate on 25 million people in the country. I dont know, any stigma that does exist can smd. thats all, peace. =)

 

Me and my girls are real serious, and we smoke together all the time, its not about not smoking and being able to do whats right, its about being responsible and making sure all the days tasks are done before blazing. But im high as shit and i never like to hear about someone quiting no matter when it will be happening, just do what is right for you mayn and blaze one for now for sure

 

dude the social stigma is what you make it to be. I know theres people that look down on me for smoking mj. I've lost my best friend i ever had due to it. Yea it hurt like a bitch but guess what? in the end its worth it. If it makes me happy thats all that matters. Lets say if you loved to play guitar but for some reason idk it was illegal and people looked down on you for it (some fucked up government lol thats all i could think of) would you quit? I know i wouldn't. I just dont let bud interfere with work and school and its all good.

 

indica omg me too. Reading that was like an epiphany cause im not alone. I had a situation where i basically had to choosde, but at the end it wa s alifestyle choice, i live for me, f him.

 

yea shit really sucked cuz i really liked her and she really liked me plus we were extremely close the most close ive ever been to someone. I stopped talking to her because the memories were just really too sad for me and since then my life has been so much better.

But yea i used to think like you man kinda ashamed of me smoking but then i realized i was brainwashed to think that way and since then i stopped giving a fuck and just do what i love to do.

 

Holy shit, me too. This is exactly what happens to me. In fact i'm trying to quit for a while tomorrow due to cash shortage so I wonder if I'll end up pullin it off. Everybody I know that smokes has claimed they were quitting soon or immediately and only 1 went through with hit but he wasn't much of a smoker in the first place.

 

Fuck haters, for real, dont let hatas bring u down. If sum hates one me for my habits i just say fuck em, and forget bout em.

As for raising a family, im gna be tokin all the time when im a dad. Ill be the best dad ever, get high as shit and take my kid to the playground , shit ill be the coolest dad out there. I just wont let my kids see it till they old enuf to understand alcohol and weed.

 

exactly man, I'm gonna be in the garage or some shit smokin mad blunts!

 

theres absolutely no reason you cant live a perfectly "normal" life while still smokin. Look at the numbers. Millions of Americans smoke and they have families and steady jobs. Its unfortunate that people think you are irresponsible if you smoke and have a family. If my future wife doesnt smoke then ill have to de-propaganda her. Fuck haters! In the words of Blind Faith "Do what you like."

 

pots kinda like good sex with an expensive hooker. After its all finished you wonder where all your money went but you never regret in the end!

 

please please please

don't let anyone but yourself convince you to either smoke or not to smoke. should be entirely up to you and based on your priorities and your personal tendencies.

 

dude listen to everyone else. i once quit pot, did it again a while back and been smokin every day since. it was a waste. weed is good. its nothing like alcohol, yet people drink every day, or almost. theres nothing wrong with smoking it. if you like it keep blazin. just dont let it control your life. i work every day painting with a spray gun, making cabinets, mantels, other stuff and i blaze all the time. i got a good tolerence built up and i like having it.

 

Why quit pot? Is it affecting you negatively at all? Are you fucking up in school (if you're still in school) or can't hold a job because of it? If you think it is, it's probably not the pot. If you're responsible than you shouldn't have any problems smoking pot & holding down everything else.

As far as your future plans go, do what you want. If you're wife is cool with you smoking pot, than smoke pot. It'll do nothing but help relieve stress & it'll probably keep your relations healthy as you won't be stressed out.

I say keep tokin', but it's up to you bro.

 

^^ a hefty % of jobs require drug testing obviously. regardless of all extraneous details that you mentioned, a simple drug test can be all thats stopping the OP from achieving (or atleast start pursuing) his goals. What else would you recommend??

 

The woman I marry has to be a smoker without question.

I'm not going to be slipping off to sneak a smoke as needed.

Her and I will smoke weed and have wild high sex. LMFAO.

 

Why do you have to quit because you want a family and a job?