Every time I smoke around people and there are at least decently attractive girls around I think of the possibility of having sex with them. I would never be stupid and just start hitting on them and being an idiot but the thought is still always there. I have high standards when it comes to girls and wouldn't hookup with anything less than a seven, but when I smoke it makes me so horny that seems like all I can think about. I wish I could just erase it from my mind and just have a good time. That way I would probably at least talk to them more and not be so socially weird in general. Like last night I was smoking with my dealer since he's cool like that and smokes up all his clients, and then these cute black chicks came in and started smoked with us too. But I didn't even talk to them the whole time because I couldn't stop thinking about it. If I was sober I probably would've been more confident and social and probably would've even got their numbers even. So anyways that's what happened. sorry for the rant but just felt like talking about my thoughts. Feel free to reply or whatever
weed makes me quiet thats why I avoided it at parties. You need to control your personality when high and then you can be a social badass while high. Its awkward when your high and trying to hit on sober chicks but when chicks are high too its all good and fair.
When I see attractive girls I think about sex with them regardless. But yeah, not being motivated to get laid is one of the reasons I got tired of smoking a while back.
So, sometimes, when you smoke, you see chicks and think, "I want to have sex with her"? Sounds like a pretty normal dude to me?
Don't get as high... I get like that too when I get super stoned. Ill just randomly get really quiet and stop talking. But if I'm drunk and really high then I'm cool.
bro....thinking about having sex with attractive women is natural, and a REAL MAN would go after what he wants..now what you're experiencing is probably stemming from lack of pussy. Trying to have sex with women is not weird and does not make you a pervert, hell, you'd be surprised how many moments YOU weren't thinkin about fucking her and maybe SHE WAS! It's all in the execution, if you can spit the right game, you'll grab her no problem and you'll seem like a fuckin goon ass alpha male dude, but spit the wrong game and you'll look weak and desperate. Women are always down to fuck provided all of their "conditions" are met, some women have a lot of em, some women have none (lol), but its gonna be your PRESENCE that determines how women perceive you, and how many of those conditions they are willing to throw out of the window to have sex with you. It's not the weed or your mindset that is boxing you into this mindset, and its not really going out on a limb but i think u wish u had the power to do whoever wherever whenever....and you havent yet realized that its POSSIBLE to do this, you just need to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal and be a REAL MAN and show these hoes what you really want...trust me, you'll be surprised how many of em want the same thing.
Haha that's exactly what I want to be, a social badass. Couldn't have said it better. Yeah I agree about the whole it's a lot easier when they're not sober either so you're not the only one that's being an idiot. It's just hard since I don't really have a lot of experience being high around people or being around high girls for that matter. Yeah dude you're right, I know it's all natural and there's nothing wrong with it but it is stemming from the lack of pussy I've been getting. I know it is. Just throwin it out there that I'm 20 now and still a virgin, so obviously when it comes to this stuff it's going to be intimidating from no experience. And I'm not even trying to fuck these girls like that, I just want a simple hookup or blowjob or whatever. And everyone else under a 7 I'm absolutely fine being friends with. So that's probably the only reason I think about it so much when I'm high with hot girls, cuz it's like my number one priority that I can't grasp hold of. The other thing is that I know these things are true that you say. It's weird cuz I know what it takes to be an alpha male and get the ladies I just haven't ever been able to really implement it correctly. I also know that smoking makes this more likely to happen so that's kinda why I've picked up on it like that. Some might say it's for the wrong reasons but whatever, at least I do enjoy it by myself. Just haven't ever been able to really enjoy it socially. Thanks for taking the time to read my thoughts
you just need to be around girls more often, just get used to talking to them and it'll be like second nature. that's really the best way imo.
