Don't act on impulse.

Gagaluvah · May 17, 2010

Storm Crow said:

Hon, don't hassle it! At your age, your hormones are still "doing cartwheels" and you are still figuring out who you are. The line between friendship and love is very thin and easy to step over. We fall in love with who someone is, not what "plumbing" they happen to have! You might describe a real friendship as loving someone without using sex.

If you had kissed another boy, I wonder if you would be having the same emotional turmoil? Probably, but to a lesser extent. Society still hasn't grown up enough to accept same sex relationships on the same level as heterosexual ones.

Now you mentioned she is already in a relationship? Now that could lead to trouble- jealousy/possessiveness and all that jazz. But a kiss is just a kiss (even with tongue ) If her relationship is solid, no real harm done. If it is shaky, it was already shaky, but you should let it fail under its own power. Don't be the one to break things up*. If you are at the beginnings of being in love with her, wait for the present relationship to end before you make another move.

When I was in Jr. High school, I met a blind kid who said "People are just voices to me. I just listen to what they say". (We were discussing 1970s racial unrest- he had no memory of skin tones having been blind since about 2.) I have tried to live as "blindly" as he did- LISTENING to what people say. If I hear love and respect in a relationship, I'm fine with it- no matter what "plumbing" is involved!

Granny

*If they cheat on their present lover, why would you think that they won't cheat on you eventually?
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