yea, I probly have the name wrong. but like noise canceling headphones type of thing so they cant hear. cut off sight, and sound, touch gets more attuned, adding a gag can help as well cuz you cut off their ability to scream and they feel totally helpless.
I like to do it rough most of the time and I have been in a relationship like that where basically I am in charge. It is fun and nice, but it is difficult at times because you constantly question if what you are doing is right (its tough and it goes deeper than normal considerations of right and wrong), in bed and elsewhere. And if you suck at being open and conversation then you should avoid it because as someone else said, you are going to end up hurt or in legal trouble.
Ohh. I'd rather not go that far lol. Unless maybe they were the little buds like construction workers wear. I wouldn't be able to stop giggling at something big over their ears. Plus I love hearing our sex sounds. Gags just piss me off. My dirty mouth needs to be heard! I'll probably get gagged one of these days as a punishment
i would like to be gagged, and blindfolded..it just adds to the feeling of the loss of control. and sexual torture as you called it, also known as teasing, has to be my favorite.
the ones I had werent like furry or anything, they were normal, I think it was the same style scientists/researchers use in studies. or sort of like the ones the guys out on tarmacs use. I didnt use gags all the time, and you can still make noise with them, how much noise depends on the style. I had a solid ball gag, one that was like a wiffle ball, a ring gag, I had a spider gag as well but I think I only used it once.
A coworker asked me did i want to be handcuffed in the back. She has a set of small rubber pink handcuffs on her belt. Suspect/
Yeah, that's how I feel about it. I can't just do all that shit with anyone. I honestly thought you were kind of into it... I was suprised when you said you weren't. You might like it. Or you might not. I don't know. I want to be gagged, blinfolded and tied up. I would want to be able to hear though.
I've dabbled in choking and some other rough stuff that gives me butterflies just thinking about but that's pretty lightweight.
But to answer your question OP, yes I've been in Dom/sub relationships,none sexual but I'm always the sub. Hey oath!Sent from my DROID BIONIC using Grasscity Forum mobile app
This one time I had my girl tied up to furniture at opposite ends of the room. She was naked and sprawled wide open when a knock came at the door. I casually got up and answered the door and there were two other girls at the door. They came in and I untied my girl on the floor while they sat and waited for us to finish. In the end, one of the other girls wanted to be tied up and my girl offered to handle the ropes.
did you know them or were they strangers? cuz it sounds so much like a porno plot that I find it hard to believe.
Yea, I knew them before that night. My girl had been "friendly" with them before is what I found out later.
Ah yes, well yeah I honestly think you'll like it if its giving you butterflies. It doesn't always have to be extreme... just something as simple as being tied up. Im not into extreme bdsm. I wasnt even down to do candle wax before... I am now, but whatever lol
Candle wax isn't so bad. Depending on your threshold for pain. If you blow it out first it really doesn't hurt at all. And its over quickly. Sometimes i get bored with it. Don't be silly and go using birthday candles or candle sticks. That's going to hurt like a mother. Well maybe candle sticks.. if you're getting bored
Im not sure how much pain I can handle yet. I went to get waxed and it felt good. The wax was nice and hot. I kind of felt like a perv for getting turned on, but I couldn't help it. I think I could handle candle wax fine. But up until my first wax I thought candle wax would be terrible. I have quite a few candle sticks actually. They're for emergencies
My first time with wax was candle sticks..she swore it wouldn't hurt that bad so I just took it. It hurt like HELL! but I was tough about it and didn't say anything..she saw the blisters on my chest the next day and was like Wtf! Why didn't you stop me! Lol. Live and learn...it's not supposed to hurt quite that much. The whole time I was thinking, how the hell do people get off on this shit it fuckin hurts! lol
should have used soft wax candles, it melts at a lower temp. think its combined with mineral oil or something. never used wax, it didnt really appeal to me other than just wanting to try it once. I lost my curiosity with fire when I was young and burned my hand to shit saving my dumbass brother