Ok so oddly enough this thought comes from a recent episode of South Park, where everyone's anger issues basically boils down to the size of their dick lol funny episode So this is coming from a female, I'm not asking whether size matters while having sex, I'm asking whether guys really care that much about size in general? Why does it matter to you guys? Like, is it really always on your mind? Just curious....
my dick is average. i wish it was bigger. i would be slightly (internally) jealous of those with a bigger member. but i've got pizza and a bowl so i'm happy.
it seems around the younger immature guys that they all just brag about dick size. i think the ones that try to brag the most have the small ones lol. like they just wanna keep saying it so that others believe it maybe? idk either way im def happy with my package
i'm sure 100 years ago nobody cared, we only cared about procreation. but thanks to recent culture changes, and a highly sexualized media and culture outlets everybody cares about huge tits, fake tans and big dicks. honestly, yes most men do care.. only because we want more women to have sex with us. if it's too small, and another dude's is dinosauric.. we feel inept and puny. luckily for me, i am well above average.. but i still think about it and worry that i will be judged..... when in reality it doesn't mean a damn thing. it shouldn't matter, only superficial and shallow bitches care and judge about the size of a man's penis.
So I guess it really doesn't matter as much as people tend to think. I wish my tits were a little bigger but I've learned to love what I have lol
i don't care, i'm just above what many studies consider "average" in length and thickness (my girl wanted measure all my stuff with me the other day out of the shower, lol) as i'm sure many other men are. i can poke a girl's cervix no problem, so why would one want more length? now girth, again, i'm happy with, but i wish i had a tiny bit thicker wang. it'd be nice to feel a girl full as she can handle. and again, girls rarely get off from the size of the dick as their anatomy is, of course, that way. my best buddy was known around high school for having a huge dick. he didn't want to spread the word at all, he didn't have a big mouth (as other guys i know have huge dicks usually don't, so i guess the loud mouths usually really do then lol), and he was honestly pissed when word spread. know why? most chicks don't want huge dicks it seems. sure many want to fit whatever they can up there, but most complain about his size and he's even just stopped foreplay entirely when trying to begin having sex because she didn't want it. sucks for him. i'd honestly say i'm HAPPY, LUCKY, to have my size dick. never had a girl REALLY complain, but girls i did from behind only or other tighter positions have even complained of my size a bit. i learned long ago that most people don't really make snap judgements like that on appearances, and that most are just ok with you as long as you're a person they get along with. i'm sure many shallow girls only judge guys by the size of the penis because he just sucked overall at sex at least at the time, and they have nothing else to blame. shallow bitches = uneducated/uninformed bitches. even if you have a below average dick, instead of crying about it, just learn to fuck better
It's just a masculinity/self esteem thing. If a guy's friends all have normal/big dicks and he has a tiny one, that alone can make him feel like less of a man, let alone having his friends point it out to him (which makes them shit friends unless they know it doesn't bother him anyway).
I honestly never thought about it until people kept making jokes that I had a big cock because I was black hahaha. I haven't had any complaints either, I've even had a few girls mention to me or my friends that I have nice dick and I don't have a huge dick by any means so I guess it's just how you use it. Another thing I think is responsible for all this dick size craze is porn where dudes walk around with horse cocks and chicks can take yard stick long objects no problems. Honestly no one would care if they didn't notice the next dude's member was bigger.
it's just a psychological thing. everyone aspires to be the alpha. that's where all competition stems from. dick measuring is just another form of competition.
In the Renaissance time, a large penis was considered to be barbaric. If it mattered in the 1500's it mattered in the 1900's.
i almost enjoy when people call me small 1. because it just shows that the size of one body part is the only argument they can come up with 2. because i break out the bong and settle it like men... see who can take the biggest rip... not that i always win but im always on the top 3 and unlike dick size, you can actually get better at taking rips... almost like a skill... you cant make your dick bigger/smaller so why dwell on it? just my 2 cents.
I have a decently sized cock and I know I just like making the woman I'm with feel good. I don't need a big dick for that, but it helps. And it helps when the woman is satisfied with the size and all.