Ok, so i just woke up at home after driving to visit people who i truly thought were my friends last night and i am feeling pretty mad. I wanna let you guys know what happened so maybe yall can tell me if i have the right to be angry with these people. Ok, i drove up to my buddies apartment, brought some booze, some bud and a few friends. I checked beforehand and they did know we were coming so its not like it was a surprise or anything. One of the kids i brought with me was an ex roommate of another bro who was staying at the house. Harry is the kids name who i brought with me and Corey is the name of the kid that was all ready at the house. Corey and Harry don't get along for stupid petty ego bullshit, even though they're older and should get over there shit, oh well. I thought things were gonna be cool, cause we brought booze/blunts and yeah...i guess i was wrong. Corey and i haven't been on great terms because of a girl! Her name is Liz, she and i haven't been talking as much and were trying to get to a better place with each other but she's mad stressed and working way to much for much of anything. She's also 19, and Corey is somewhere around 22 and he knew i had feelings for her and went behind my back to get to know her, its annoying but im really not worried about the girl. The thing that pissed me off is that they all stayed inside this one room smoking blunts, while the rest of the heads were outside in the living room playing music/pong having a fun time. They came out a few times but they wouldn't talk to us and then they would go back inside. This continued for the entire night.....for at least 3 hours they were in that room just smoking and sitting in a circle... Now at the end of the night when i said goodbye this girl Liz comes up to me, and were talking and i straight up ask her whats going on in there, why aren't u guys chilling outside with us...This is kinda bullshit. She danced around the question and wouldn't give me a straight answer. (i believe its because i brought up Harry with me. But i still think its lame that these supposebly older kids can't get along when a 19 year old is trying to make the peace) Anyhow, Liz tells me she's going to this party on Saturday she wants me to go, i said i possibly have work so i might not be able to, and then she says that i should go bring her lunch on Tuesday during her break... You guys can definatly discuss this out, i have noo idea what to do with this chick.... So what do u guys think, are my friends being jerks... or am i the one at fault! Summary: -Drove up to hang with friends who i don't see often -Friends staying inside room smoking bud for hours didn't come up -Probably caused by tension between Me/A girl/Older guy and Older guy/Old Roommate -End of night Girl finally talks to me, says we should meet up at this party/I Should bring her lunch
They were being idiots for not socializing on purpose. You were sort of an idiot for bringing the dude that the rest of 'em didn't like, even though they are idiots for not liking the guy. That girl: not hanging out with you, keeping shit from you, and then asking if you can bring her lunch? All in all, maybe Harry is your real friend?
harry is my nig. me and him are gonna be famous together one day, he's hooking me up with some heavy hitters in the music industry (i play sax) and were gonna record in a little bit i checked with the homeowners of the house if they would mind if they thought that bringing harry would be a problem. They said they would love to see him and if corey can't handle his shit then fuck em basically and the girl... yeah thats how she is....the worst person and the best person all rolled up in a ball of puzzle's
Kinda your fault cause the guy probably made things awkward, but they were very immature so yeah you have a right. As for the lady, be sure you don't get played.
sounds like some immature highschool bull shit but who knows maybe the corey guy just holds grudges against people... i would be kinda pissed to if i was you...
Yea you have the right to be mad, but sounds they weren't really true friends of yours to begin with so move on, let them keep the drama amongst themselves.
She's using you. Why would she talk to you at the end of the night...oh right, it's because the kickback is over. Tell both of 'em to suckadick and if the girl say's yea, follow through
imo you have a right to be mad they sound like a bunch of babies who cant get over little things id just stop hanging wth them at all if i was you
Why didn't you guys just go in the room they were chillin' in and ask why they were all camped out in there?
Kinda your fault cause the guy probably made things awkward, but they were very immature so yeah you have a right. As for the lady, be sure you don't get played.
i went in once and tried to talk to them about coming out and joining us, but they just stared at me and also, the room was TINY... we were in the nice big open living room with booze, and delicious bud...idk why they wouldn't wanna come outside
dang if they just stared at you and didn't say anything, those are some shitty "friends" - i'd cut my ties and hang out with Harry lol
i guess so, it sucks that we all used to be so close...so close i think a lot of it has to do with me being such close friends with harry that corey is mad at me...idk i just wish everything could go back to how it was before......
My friend, this is what we call life... lol... its sad, but most of the people you're friends with now, you won't be friends with in the next few years... things change exponentially each year you get older, especially in your 20s... The sooner you realize that not everyone is going to be around later in life, the more you'll value the good relationships you do have... and the less drama you'll have dealing with douchers who only pretend to be your friend.
i feel like the majority of relationships i have with people have stalled out there is nothing new to discover really