So first some background information. I am in college and go back home about once every two weeks, but I still worry about dealing with my parents and the awkardness that comes with it, especially since one of the main reasons I come back is to smoke with my friends. So here is the thing. My parents have a guest house they rent out, but it has been vacant for over a year. Obviously, I have used this place to smoke both alone and with friends (I just recently moved to college, and Im back home on alternating weekends and holidays so its good then too). My mom, who was pretty upset when she first found out I smoke weed (and has purposely done many things to make me feel uncomfortable such as criticizing me for having "drug using friends," standing right in front of my door and talking to my brother halfway across the house to talk about how "bad" marijuana is. ) told me they found grow lights down there, and said "the previous owners were therfore growing which is why we thought you were smoking down there." Now I was upset because once my parents found out I was just glad the hiding it was over. I dont want to go through this again. My mom certainly knows I have tried it (she found a lighter in my pockets and called my uncle who told her (dont blame my uncle he's cool, but he knew there was no room to lie for me) that I had told him I tried it at parties, but maybe she now thinks it was just like ive only smoked 4 times in my life or something. I was actually happy they knew, I was no longer living a lie, but at the same time, it was subtle and they never brought stuff up except as noted above. I didnt even know my mom knew until she started making comments like that. So is my mom just trying to make me feel uncomfortable again, or does she really think I have smoked way less than I really have? Also, she said "thats why we thought you were smoking pot DOWN THERE" does that mean she still knows I do it but doesnt think I smoke there, I cant imagine this, how could you have a son who you know is a stoner but you dont think smokes down there? I dont really want to be in there face about this, but I dont want it awkward either. Also, I found no evidence of grow lights and I cant believe if it had been there, they would just find out now (over a year later), so maybe its a mind game.