Im really smart and fly an all but my friends seem to be holding me back. They constantly make fun of me for literally no reason. They humiliate me even tho i do nothing embarrassing or weird. And they are just generally immature. Ive realized this now after being friends since fifth grade. Im 18 and a senior in high school. Is it worth making new friends this late?
those arent friends... i dont hang out with anyone i was friends with in high school. just coast till schools over, maybe try to find some new people.
Yea man. First off tell them how you feel and stand up for yourself. Don't let anyone put ya down, ever. If they change then roll with it and if not bounce and make new friends.
Dog i know but i got fuckin trapped in a clique in middle school an just stayed and this is the product
Dog i do. Ive fought them before and shit. Like usually its not bad but they just go too fuckin far sometimes and its just become too much. Not to mention they fuckin kill my high
wear a karate outfit to school with a belt of whatever color you feel is about right for your skill level
Oh ill edit that out. I had to copy n paste parts of the description cuz i fucked up on the title of the firt n had to redo the whole thread
I'm almost in the exact same situation, besides a friend or two.. And they're not even close friends. It's hard to get rid of someone completely, I haven't even done it for all my friends myself, but I think if you're feeling so shitty about them in your life then there's no reason to give them your time of day. I realized I was getting made fun of a lot by my friends because in high school I was quite silly (and still am), I'm just a funny girl. But my friends took that as I'm stupid, when I'm well aware that I'm a lot smarter than most of them. Anyways, they are obviously not caring as much about you as you do them if they can make all those comments to you. I know it's difficult to push people out of your life suddenly, but I'd consider looking for a friend or two to make a new friend group.. you won't feel so lame about losing your old friends then. That's my opinion at least. I don't give my friends that don't appreciate me the time of day anymore. Got over that shit.
Its jut hard cuz theyve been my friends for so long and im used to it and shit plus i dont wanna spend senior year with no friends
screw them .. don't even bother making new ones cause when highschool is over your not going to be wasting your time on them anyways.. your going to be worryed about work ditch the friends and go succeed... it may seem stupid but when your the one that has a future worth sticking around for youll be thankfull you did don't waste your time trying to belong in a group of people wasting there own time its not worth it