Ok so I need your advice on what to do with this crazy bitch. First of all, I was 17 years old working my job, she came to me asked for my number we hung out, fucked a week later and we started dating and saying we love each other. 2 months later she cheated on me with her Ex that she lived with by giving him birthday head because I said mean things to her and called her a whore, because she told a cop "Which one of yall are going to arrest me" at work. Which I find perfectly fine. Then her ex's sister died (Paybacks a bitch) and she went to the funeral with him and fucked him there at his house before his siters funeral. Then I started doing coke and shit but I took her back. Then she went with some dude in the middle of the night because I told her that I didnt want to take her home cause shes a whore. They ended up kissing forcefully (Rape sorta). Then I took her back and hung out with some girls and got over her for a few days. I then took her back and I now that she loves me but she was born and raised a whore. Shes fucked many guys in the past and did many nasty things because of her family. Also, she has a kid. I need to know what to do, I'm 18 now and shes a bitch and I want to leave her but I fucking can't. Every time I leave her I end up coming back. She always gets me back w/ sex. PLEASE HELP ME GC Edit: Im currently not smoking, if i were, this would be NP
sounds like you made a series of bad decisions, and are not mature enough for a relationship. plus you have bad taste in character if you chose a girl who cheats on you. dump her, get off the coke, do a little philosophy research.
Sounds like a whole mess of problems. If sex is the only reason why you're drawn back to her then you obviously don't love her. And if she fucks other guys, she obviously doesn't love you. Where do you draw the line? heh.
she always plays the I love you Ill never do it again bullshit and I believe it. She's also been my first serious relationship so It's kind of hard to leave, I've never dumped or left anyone before I felt bad.
A fool for love? Perhaps... She has you under her finger and she will use your weaknesses against you. I think you already know that.
All your problems are solved by just never talking to her again. It's going to rough at first, I've been through it but the last girl I dated turned out to be a backstabbing bitch. I'd talk to her sporadically here and there but that's gone and I haven't said a word to her in 2 years now. Don't let one person be the downfall of your life. Life is way to fucking short to worry about such trivial shit.
Obviously you have to leave her, if you're not man enough and want to get played that's your problem.
Dude, I stayed with a girl (also my first serious gf) for waaay too long because she manipulated me. Finally telling her to gtfo of my life was one of the best things I've done. It's time to stop fucking around and steer clear. Trust me, you won't miss her bullshit in the end.
this sounds like a very toxic bitch that you need to stay away from when you think you can't, just think of the herpes and/or syphilis that she will give you later on someone that goes out and screws somebody else when they're angry are not worth much
There are like ~3.5 billion women on this planet why is your teenage life being wasted on white trash like that? And quit doing coke.
Honestly everyone will tell you to stay away from her, because that IS the best help you can give yourself. The truth is your 18 and she's 17, you two can't possibly understand true love at this time in your life. The true meaning of love doesn't even exist in her vocabulary apparently. If you say she was raised as a whore, she is obviously a very unstable individual which creates an unstable relationship. I know it's something you don't want to hear, but sometimes what is best for us isn't always something we necessarily like. Good luck!
She has a child at 17. She has cheated on you. She is not the one for you OP. Later on you will find a woman who will respect you, care for and TRULY love you. She will not cheat on you. She will be there when you need it. Just as when you will be there when she needs it. She will not manipulate you. You and this girl, not her, will have children together in the future. Your children, not another mans. She will care for these children, she will not fuck up like that 17 year old girl. She will be responsible, loving and mature. Break up with her and wait for that special someone (with a bunch of flings in between).
Dude seriously... re-read your own post. There is absolutely NO positives to this girl. None. Not one ounce of good. Shes fucking dudes before her SISTERS funeral. Like who the FUCK is in the mood to do anything when one of your immediate family just died? I'm just going to brutally honest with you. If you get back with her... you sir, are a fucking idiot. I say that out of love.
Get out of there man. You can choose a life of misery if you want. You have the power to make your own choices for yourself. You're a adult. Make an adult decision to get on with your life and get the hell away from this succubus. If you want your life to suck and be full of drama, stay with her, just don't expect anyone to feel bad for you as you are entirely capable of getting away from her, it's just that you choose not to. Come on man. Don't put yourself in these situations unless you're the kind of person who enjoys bullshit and drama. Stop communicating with her. That's it.