Couldn't cum when I lost my virginity

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by UprightCitizen, Mar 21, 2012.

  1. The weed is always greener man:rolleyes:. I had sex two times with my ex and didn't finish either time. Pretty crunk both times and on unmentionables. She told me before hand that she'd never had sex sober, I should've ran then. I can tell you I definitely wish I had put it in and busted in 30 seconds. I could've just ate her pussy some more until I could get it in again.:(
     
  2. Maybe you had your dick in a gopher hole, I hear artificial turf can simulate pussaaaaaaaayyy !!!
     

  3. Heh. Well, I didn't cum my first time either (with first GF). But it was probably just because when it comes to sex, I'm a (gay) bottom, not a top, so I like my partner to make decisions and moves. I just didn't know it at the time. I was totally attracted to her, but topping just doesn't work for me.

    I didn't come my first gay time either though, cause the other guy came pretty quickly and I didn't even build up much.
     
  4. same here, lol. first time was with my first gf, we went into her barn and laid down all kinds of blankets and i fucked her for at least 2 hours, and after awhile it was just like fucking air. then like a week later we did it standin up and i came in like 5 minutes oh god
     
  5. I always still to this day. I fuck my girlfriend i cum like 20 to 30 mins into it or i dont cum for like 2 hours. For soem reason though when im high it takes me hella long time to cum.. i dont really care though kuz even when i bust i jus start back up again.
     
  6. didnt cum my first time, i sense a trend here....
     
  7. now that im reflecting, i didnt cum my first time either... i didnt really pay any attention as it was in the front row of a movie theatre.
     
  8. #48 NeverBSatisfied, Mar 30, 2012
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    You probably didn't release because of you being so nervous about performance or going into it having expectations. Your nerves that came with that (pun attended) resulted into your body tightening up and not allowing itself to simply enjoy the moment. Next time, nut all over her ass dude and be cynical if you can about it because you can.:cool:

    As for myself, it happens. I've had that happen numerous times with me and like you, I got so angry and simply bored with it that I said fuck it, having no real explanation on why. I'm a 60 minute man & sometimes my girl is so exhausted and asks if I'm anywhere near busting but I'm like "I got atleast another 30 minutes." That's when I'll just nut on her from visual. That's important. Seeing your performance.
     
  9. I lost my virginity when I was 13 and I came in about 10-15 minutes while stoned out of my mind and she orgasmed about 5 minutes before I came and she was also high so I don't know if weed really has an impact...it didn't for us at least
     
  10. I didn't cum my first time, lasted like 1.5 hours and eventually just got tired/bored.
     
  11. Dunno man, but I've always had a hard time busting while using a rubber. Condoms make my dick numb.
     
  12. i'm pretty sure my dick didn't even leave my pants before cumming my 1st time with a chick.
     
  13. Thats what I was thinking. Virgins lasting for hours!!! They should all enter the porn industry. Glad some dudes are honest in here
     
  14. It was the same for me the first two times we had sex. It literally got to a point where she started getting too sore, and tired. The third time, though, it finally happened.

    I feel like there are so many factors that go into it. First off it was our first times so learning each other's bodies, and what it took to please each other was important. Every persons body is different. I used to be able to make my ex cum with just two fingers no problem, but with other girls the same technique doesn't work as well. I guess it has a while lot to do with experience with each other.

    Then again I watched a shit ton of porn before I lost my virginity so that could have somewhat desensitized me to the real thing... Who knows.
     

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