Stoned af and wondering what the general feelings are on this. Personally, I don't think I could. I did for 2 years and I had an absolutely miserable time, mainly because they weren't only a non-smoker, but they were as antagonistic about my usage as possible. It could also just as easily really depend on the person.
Did you just break up and need to "vent" about it........?? I could if they didnt' care that I smoked
No, we broke up months ago and I'm totally fine. I just saw this reddit post that brought up an interesting perspective from a non-stoner trying to date a stoner and I wanted to discuss it with someone. Unfortunately, I'm entirely too stoned right now to make any sense I'm actually trying to figure out how to delete this stupid thread now.
LOL........it's ALLLLLLLLLLL good girl........it keeps "stoners" like me entertained!... It could work..........but its def "harder"
I could be stoned with you.....whenever you are ready! For real though..............I just don't see how two separate lifestyles like that could work efficiently
Nah...I wouldn't be with someone who doesn't get high. because every time I got high I would feel like the guy was judging me & stuff. im a full time mother an wife an a lot of that time I was high so idk were he getting that it turns you into a zombie because that is never the case with me and an my husband we both get high. ~Toni~
That's exactly how it was with my ex, he was constantly judging me. Like, aloud. He called me a "junkie" and looking back, I honestly can't believe I put up with all those unnecessary feelings of guilt and shame. It was stupid. To be fair, that post is taken from /leaves, which is a support subreddit for how to "quit pot", but still. On one hand I think it's incredibly lame that these people exist period and then again it's interesting, to a certain degree.
I don't think the act of getting high has anything to do with compatibility. I also don't think that being a "stoner" strictly means that you have to get high. One of my lifelong friends, who has been growing and smoking for 30+ years is married to an awesome woman who doesn't smoke or drink but she's always awesome to have around and you would never know that she doesn't get high. She doesn't mind if people smoke around her and she even helps with the gardening and trimming. She makes super trippy art and used to sell jewelry and funky screen-printed t-shirts at weird hippie music festivals. She used to work at rave parties 'back in the day' and was an early pioneer of promoting harm reduction and on-site drug testing. All in all, this girl is more of a "stoner" than a lot of stoners i know and her and my buddy have been going strong for 18+ years.
Aslong as you being a stoner is implied in the beginning, I do not see an issue. However, the surprise stoner trick is often one employed by people who are normal people when they are not stoned, but when they become stoned, they become completely dysfunctional, unwilling to do anything other than whatever they are doing when they are stoned. Most people who act this way, try to hide it and don't say anything about it until it is sprung upon you that this person is a borderline dysfunctional addict.
She sounds amazing, to be honest. I'd love to pass a fat blunt to that woman. Wait. There are definitely certain people out there who just radiate this unique energy that's all theirs and it's always like nothing you've ever seen before and you just cannot fucking believe this person has never actually smoked weed before/has no interest/whatever. I associate 'stoners' with 'cool vibes' or something like that, I don't know, and you know when you just meet a super cool, laidback person? Yeah. Like that.
Could I? Sure. Would I? ...Well you can't really say No based on either experience or perception...it's all depending on the person. So, I'd "be prepared to"...but that doesn't mean the whole thing wouldn't shit the bed. I guess with the proviso that they are aware of my habitual usage of marijuana...and that a discussion is had, an honest discussion, in advance. I'd be prepared to compromise to make it work of course...but just like compromise isn't my saying "I'm just going to do what I want and you should accept that", nor would it be "Look, you can do it but only if I'm not around and know nothing about it". It's about being open with each other, and establishing where you stand as individuals...and with the understanding that neither party is going to actively try to change this simple fact about the other. To be honest, I think that while most stoners would share their time with a non stoner, I feel that the non-stoners would be more likely to answer "no" to this question.
Idk hard to say until in this situation,,but i smoke n u smoke too so lets go blaze Sent from my SM-J727P using Tapatalk
That's a "big lifestyle choice" in my opinion.....if you both aren't "on the same page with it".........I can see where it would easily be a "problem" throughout the relationship
lmao I been dating this girl for 4 years. when we first started, she'd hit the bong sometimes but the panic attacks totally turned her off of weed and now she hates the smell of it. so yea, that's my relationship. i'm dating a non stoner
I met a young lady when I was into smoking lots of hash... She tried some pot and became paranoid; she never smoked, again. I married that young lady... and I remember saying to her many times; "Load up my gun, dear". She'd 'dutifully' take my Proto-Pipe, fill it for me, and pass it over. She was my mate for forty years... never smoked. What's the problem?
