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Considering changing my lifestyle

Discussion in 'Apprentice Marijuana Consumption' started by Proud2Smoke, Oct 4, 2011.

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  1. #1 Proud2Smoke, Oct 4, 2011
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    i dont why but this is seriously tearing me apart. I cant decide what to do with my life because for all the years ive known my brother weve never really connected until we started smoking pot together (he smoked before then). Ever since then we have become closer then ever. I never really knew my brother before we started hanging out and smoking and come to known him as a bit of a druggie (so am i, not just pot) and its the image i have as my brother. Today he said to me im cutting back smoking going to focus on gym and studying and making money. This really fucked with me because ive grown to admire my brother and now and i cant decide what to do with my life. Should i also slow down my everyday smoking and start studying more and eating healthier and working out a bit more? The times we've had in the past year have been great to me, and i dont want those to go away, i really want him to keep seshing with me because i feel our relationship wont be as solid without mary jane. I need more advice from people, am i over reacting? i really love my brother and smoking together has brought us closer then we have ever been before. please give your advice



    edit - i finally opened up to him and told him i loved him and that ive loved the time we spent together smoking and the relationship weve never had and that i dont want to end. He freaked out but because id never done that before because it was the we were brought up, but this is the first time weve actually told eachother weve loved eachother
     
  2. #2 S0UR, Oct 4, 2011
    Start going to the gym together. You'll still have something to bond with him over. And he'll probably still smoke with you once in a while so you'll still have that. Basically, nothing's changed and everything's fine.
     
  3. #3 Proud2Smoke, Oct 4, 2011
    thats actually a good idea, ill ask him as soon as possible.
     
  4. #4 vXiRiSHXv, Oct 4, 2011
    good luck bro. everything should stay the same and hopefully you'll still have good old smoke sessions, but other things in your life are important to. things sound like they're moving in a good direction for you guys. Look forward to it. Be easy.

    -iRiSH
     
  5. #5 Sherak, Oct 4, 2011
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  6. #6 fyasko808, Oct 4, 2011
    It sounds like everything will be okay, but do what you want, whats in your best interest. It sounds like you can have your cake and eat it to, just not as often.

    You got one life, rock it!
     
  7. #7 GridlxCC6, Oct 4, 2011

    Plus smoking after getting back from the gym is great:smoke: I found it to be the ideal form of relaxation after some heavy lifting
     
  8. #8 Proud2Smoke, Oct 4, 2011
    thankyou guys, even the small number of responses ive received so far are making me feel better, although i am sort of questioning my childhood and am regretting that i never made a solid bond with my brother at an earlier age
     
  9. #9 S0UR, Oct 4, 2011
    [quote name='"Proud2Smoke"']thankyou guys, even the small number of responses ive received so far are making me feel better, although i am sort of questioning my childhood and am regretting that i never made a solid bond with my brother at an earlier age[/quote]

    Don't get caught up in the past. The point is you have a solid relationship with him now.
     
  10. #10 Proud2Smoke, Oct 5, 2011
    [quote name='"S0UR"']

    Don't get caught up in the past. The point is you have a solid relationship with him now.[/quote]

    Ye I guess it's just we built our relationship on weed and I'm hoping that if we take that away or dumb it down a little it wont have the same effect on us as brothers
     
  11. #11 Arckaic, Oct 5, 2011
    You just have to find more in common with each other than smoking weed, I'm sure there is more.
     
  12. #12 trapavelli, Oct 5, 2011
    aww that hit me in my heart cause my family liek dat ive never heard my dad say i love u
    i dont got no brothers but i feel u man

    good thing u just str8 up said it hope things go good !
     
  13. #13 Proud2Smoke, Oct 5, 2011
    yea i spoke openly to him, at first he was like wtf because we have never talked that deeply because of how we were brought up but he said it was nice to be opened up to and we do have quite a lot in common (both our friend groups say we look alike and one of us is the mini version of the other) its just hard because im not sure if he likes me with his friends (i really dont mind when hes with mine). thanks guys, just got back from personal training and going to smoke a few bowls
     
  14. #14 Soccerguy420, Oct 5, 2011
    Hey man, this is really pretty. I won't bother with advice because other people have done it, I'm just really happy you have a positive relationship with a family member! Smoking brings people together, basically as a caveat to hang out, but it isn't any more genuine as a sport, a hobby, or anything else you could bond over. If he is cutting back to get healthy, why not do it too? And see if you can still talk to him without marijuana between you, it should be an interesting change.

    Best of luck, I love you all :)
     
  15. #15 BuddhistBrian, Oct 5, 2011
    Continue the solid relationship with being gym buddies. Work out every day with him! Smoke about once a week and you're going to be a happy camper!
     
  16. #16 GaryG, Oct 5, 2011
    What ever betters you bro.

    Do what you think is right.
     
  17. #17 Proud2Smoke, Oct 5, 2011
    yeah im cutting down from everyday to 1-4 days a week and im starting a martial arts class twice a week and going to continue gym with my trainer and my brother atleast 3 times week. Should be a good change im also going to start eating a lot healthier and spend money on other things besides cannabis
     
  18. #18 K-9, Oct 5, 2011
    im glad you have told your brother you love him. how old are you guys? i have never told my brother that even though i want to. but sounds like your on the way to the best life possible.... keep it up
     
  19. #19 Caty, Oct 5, 2011
    It wasn't the weed that brought you closer together, it was talking and bonding with him. None of that will change with or without bud.
     
  20. #20 Mulled, Oct 5, 2011
    Workout together? be each others spotter, but wait a bit don't be a creeper it'll look really weird specially after you said you loved him and shit, I mean think about it, it's good you wanna spend time with him but he is your BROTHER it's not meant to be some orgy relationship.


    Just my opinion, but remember I'm in the same boat as you :)
     
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