Has anyone/anything ever told you, "If everyone around you upsets you, chances are its something with you that's the problem" ? There arent many people who directly effect my life, but these days it seems the majority of those people upset me. So, i think to myself, "Ok, so if everyone else is the problem, its gotta be me" but thats the thing, it isnt everyone, there are people in my life who dont do me wrong, and who matter to me, yet there are others who truly matter to me, I feel have done me wrong. Its so upsetting. Why is communication so frustrating? Have you ever had friends who you assume are on the no speak policy who violate this? I feel as though its either I continue the relationship falsley, and dont tell them anything or I cut ties all together, both are no good ya know?