Let\'s talk about girls. I went to the waterpark at hersheypark over the weekend and I noticed my ladyfriend looking at other more \"buff\" guys, of which I am not one. Needless to say I felt neglected and actually DIDN\'T want to have sex with her the night we got back from the water park. Like, that\'s how bad I felt. I don\'t really look at other girls usually but like she was all eyes on these dudes. I was jealous.
I\'m glad you made this thread. I actually was having trouble thinking about something to write, since I have many theories on the female mind and whatnot. I decided to tell you a story, a true story, that may just be the best way to end a relationship with a girl you are sick of/is cheating on you/etc. I was dating a girl named Nikki last year. I started to really like her after knowing her for about a year. One night as we were rolling, her BF left and suddenly we were an item. We kept it on the down-low for a while, then she finally told her BF and they broke up. We promptly started to officially date afterwards. As time went on, I grew more attached to her. I had never had this happen before, I had never felt this close to anyone, and at this point I had probably been in 3 or 4 serious relationships. After having been together for around 6 months, something started to happen. She was gone more, busy much more often than she used to be. I find out she\'s been hanging out with this guy from her work a lot. I have been cheated on numerous times before so I know what I\'m in for. For the time being, I decide to just wait it out and see what happens. About a month later, on a Saturday. I call her up at around noon and she doesn\'t answer. She ignores my calls up until about 5 when she finally picks up and tells me she is at her best friend\'s apartment. I go over there to chill and smoke, just to chill with the two of them. I\'m there for about 15 minutes, when Becca (Nikki\'s best friend) mentions something about Jason (the guy from Nikki\'s work). Nikki tells me he was over there earlier and they all hung out. Now I\'m pretty upset. I don\'t care if you want to hang out with people, but PICK UP THE FUCKING PHONE AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING! If you plan on cheating on someone, don\'t ignore their phone calls incessantly because it\'s pretty fucking incriminating. Anyways, I bounce back to my house in a bad mood. I start to drink and smoke by myself. Around 11 at night, Nikki calls me up and wants to come over. At this point, I\'m getting pretty drunk and I\'ve got everything planned out, I know exactly what I\'m going to do. Here\'s where it gets good. She comes over, we smoke a bowl and have a few drinks. We start screwing around a bit, she takes me into my room. We start going at it like squirrels on speed, man. Doggy, missionary, reverse cowgirl, all that shit. I was drunk, and didn\'t give a shit about anything, so I was going to town. I notice her getting louder, as she is getting ready to come. I\'m talking dirty to her, calling her a whore, you name it. Here\'s the gist of what was said: Me - You love this shit, don\'t you? Her - Oh yeah, I\'m almost there! Me - You love it when I\'m in you Her - Oh God! Me - I fuck you real good, like Jason, right? Her - Uh....what? Me - That\'s right bitch, I know you\'ve been screwing around. It was at this point, in my drunken anger, that I pulled out, pushed her down on the bed, and proceeded to empty the entire contents of my nutsack directly on her forehead. \"Get the fuck out of my house, right the fuck now!\" Didn\'t even let her clean up before driving home. Never heard from her again.
oh shit... thats quite the story, especially the surprise jizz bomb to the face... but that asside, ive had this happen way, way too many times. part of it is insecurity, and not to diss on anyone else, but i know im very insecure, and i know that girls head games fuck with me like no other. my only weakness\'s are marijuana and girls head games. its obvious that a lot, and i mean a HELL of a lot of women (by no means all) are purely motivated by money and looks. if you are dating someone like this then one of the sure fire things that will happen is when they either start talking about other guys or you catch them looking at them. my ex used to talk about \"hot\" guys and would point out and swoon over guys on tv ALL THE FUCKING TIME. i couldnt stand it. wed be watching some show and shed just HAVE to tell me how hot that dr is, or how much she would love to marry him... its at that point that i pretty much set in my mind what the deal was, so i started making my own test comments to see how she would react. of course, at first she tried to play it cool and started asking occasionally if i though friend a or b was hot, to which i answered honestly. when she would get mad at my honest answers, its when i knew things were kaput so to speak. basically, if a girl has wandering eyes and your not the main focus of her interest, dont fuckin bother. i waste absolutely no time on flighty women who are always looking for the next hottest guy. clues to this are as mentioned above, as well as girls who \"are looking for a cowboy\" or a certain type of guy. just watch out men, women (not all) play major head games, whether they even realize it or not. its just something they do. dont waste your time with girls like this, they will eventually find their dream man and probably suck him dry of everything, money, health, sanity... the list goes on... if you are jealous because shes alookin at other dudes, be that way because you are totally justified. there is nothing wrong with looking at people, i mean fuck, my ex used to people watch like a motherfucker, but if shes got that look and it sounds like she does, dont waste the time. if you feel its needed, tell her how you feel, but if she cant do her part to show she wants to be with YOU and isnt just passing the time until her big muscled hero comes, kicks you down and sweeps her off her feet, then just end it. i wouldnt put up with wandering eyes and thoughts. if they want to get together with their girls and talk about mc dreamy from the tv, thats all well and good, but if shes not giving you 100% of her sexual attention when your together, then fuck that. i know i give my woman all my attention, and if shes doing her thang right, i aint gonna be lookin at any other woman (unless its a porno, which she can feel free to do as well). she shouldnt have anyone else distracting her from you sexually, and if she does, its obvious that its never going to work.
That is perhaps one of the best stories I have ever heard in my life. Seriously, after I read that the first thing that came to mind was \"chill with that guy.\" hahahaha.
I don\'t see it as a big deal, does she stop you from looking at any attractive female the day you have sex? Probably not. Now say thats different or whatever- but its really not. Its human to desire. Its either lust/love that you get to have sex with her. Just my opinion on the situation. One girl I went out went- we saw the Punisher (the movie) together, and I think she had a thing for that guy, cause of his muscles and what not. She wanted to stop back at my place so we could get it on before I brought her home. And I didn\'t mind one bit....
of course if it works out like that, its fine. there is nothing wrong with looking, but when you look, you dont always desire. its when pepole look at others with desire, especially in a romantic relationship, it becomes a problem. i have no issue with a companion looking at other men, thats normal, but when you can see they are not simply just looking that it has to be addressed, because ultimately, if others more attractive people are drawing you away from someone, its a huge red flag for your true desires towards the person your ignoring.
Keep in mind you can look at a person and think they are physically attractive while still remembering that they probably have about as much personality as a doorknob.
Unfortunately, this usually happens to me. Either that, or I get the weird, way-out-there chick who babbles about nonsensical bullshit all night. I don\'t think I\'m picky, I just think most chicks in this area should be replaced with others from across the country. Or just killed, either or.
hmm well, when it comes to those situations, i speak to my woman with my fist. haha jk. tell that bitch whats up though
It\'s enough just to come to terms with the fact that 3.75 out of every four females would give their left arm to nail johnny depp. I mean...if I were johnny depp, I would be getting around just for that reason. What if he came to your city for an interview or something? You really never know. >_>
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