Cheated on my girlfriend

if you really loved her you would tell her the truth, no matter if she breaks up with you or not.

 

Dude.... how long we're you together when it happened!?

 

Your lungs don't realize how good the taste of oxygen is until they miss it the most. If all you did was make out with another girl, honestly express your love to your gf. Make sure she's not on her period though. Best of luck.

 

What do you think she was doing?

 

Your girlfriend didn't wonder why you all of a sudden quit talking to your best friend?

Do what you know is right. That's what determines a person's character. Everyone makes mistakes, but owning up to them is a different story.

Tell her. Don't fucking wait around any longer. Just tell her. Chances are she probably knows, but didn't want to believe it.

 

So, like a year and a half.

It's really up to you. If you know it was a mistake and it won't happen again, I don't see why you would say anything.

It's just going to fuck up your relationship even though you already know how big of a mistake it was.

 

Goddamn dude you only made out with her AFTER SHE initiated it. Grow a pair and stop crying yourself to sleep, and tell your girl.

 

Guy Code:

Dont say anything.

 

I might not agree with this an hour from now, a day from now, a month from now, etc. But if you really love her and you realized it was a mistake and you know that you'd never do anything like that again, then I'd keep it a secret. Learn from it, and go to your grave with it.

 

Guy Code:

Dont say anything

 

I'm actually starting to agree with not telling her.

It happened 6 months ago, when you too were on the rocks, and you only made out with her, after SHE started it.

 

Dude, don't tell her. Just chalk this up to a lesson learned, shower her with love and affection and, most importantly, massages.

If you tell her it WILL change this relationship. You fucked up, but guess what, you also realized your mistake and came up with the solution. You don't talk to this girl, you know how to avoid this is the future.

Sometimes our loins will make decisions our minds don't agree with. That doesn't mean your girlfriend should suffer, because she ultimately will for no reason.

What will owning up to it really get you? You'll lose her trust, which will strain, if not ruin, your relationship and you're still going to feel bad.

 

Don't tell her, if you do tell her and she doesnt end it w/ u that means she cheated. So either way it ends bad if you tell her.

 

I would say don't tell her, as well, if you're truly sorry. What she doesn't know won't kill her. When I cheated on my girl by kissing another girl, most of the responses were not to tell her, I did. We got back together but broke up shortly after. It probably won't be the same if you did, its your relationship. I would sure like to see the responses, if the genders were switched though ahaha

 

Well, you know mine would be the same.

But you're right. The other night some chick made a thread about purely setting herself up for temptation and people had all types of nasty things to say to her. It's really fucking funny.

 

Don't say shit ever! And deny everything....ALWAYS AND FOREVER!!! Anyone who says tell her is stupid, and keep a lock on your phone just in case she's one of those snoopy types. My ex girl my heart would drop when I woke up and realized that phone wasn't in my pocket...