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catching feelings with a girl who got a dude.

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by fly society, May 26, 2009.

  1. shit succs like crazy grasscity. The story is this,i like this girl n she got a bf and i know him. We stay in the same neighborhood. Now one time when her n him broke up she was piccing me up in her mom's car,smoking weed with me. She even had kinda made me sumthing to eat cuz she said i was 2 skinny. Now i never EVER came on to her on that "yo i like u"shit because i had a feeling she diddn't like me. But why would she do all that shit if she ain't like me. It wasnt the weed cuz she bought the weed a couple times.

    Idk but idont really talk to her like that,but i do still got feelings for her. Shit succs because she told me how she b with her bf ""ALL DAY EVERYDAY"

    that shit succs.


    grasscity can u help me out?


    o n one time my homie talked 2 her on the phone about me n asked if she like me n she was like "lol...idkkkkk" in a girly voice.

    Idk but i never got a hug from her either.but she said she dont like people in her personal space n bubble n shit so i can digg it.but when she get high she would tell me hella stories about herself,n we would watch her dog hump this lil bear he had Lmao.
     
  2. lets put it this way, she doesn't NOT like you, you have a shot, just keep building the attraction
     
  3. she wants you for the bud lol
     
  4. my advice to you, being a girl, just chill out and see what happens.
    show her you could be a better boyfriend than hers, but in a subtle way. you know?
    be there for her when they fight, or when she just needs someone to talk to.
    odds are, these two arent gonna get married.
    it's up to you if you think she's worth waiting for.
     
  5. she is worth waiting for
    its just sum bullshit cuz she was havin me goin up 2 her job n shit

    i met her sister

    i mean all this shit.
    n now she go wit sum lame ass dude lmao.
    n she says she likes 2 b with him n shit.when i remember when she said he was lame
     
  6. try not to worry about it too much man.
    you'll just overstress yourself when you could be getting high.
    i've been the girl in your same situation, and i thought it was cute they guy waited for me instead of trying to break us up because he wanted me to be happy.
    like i said, be good to her and show her you're better for her.
     
  7. souns like you got some 12 year old shit goin on man, grow up.
     
  8. ^i didn't want to say it at first, but yeah when I looked at the spelling that's all I could think of
     
  9. my left hand is broke

    its kind of hard to type.
    my fault.
     
  10. Get your own hiena homes. If he doesn't treat her right then take her from him, but expect to get your ass beat!
     
  11. Don't worry, I don't give a fuck about how you spell shit...I understood what you wrote:cool:
     
  12. i, on the other hand, cannot read your post because you are illiterate.
     
  13. you mean, because you are illiterate?

    that's what it means if you can't read ;)

    :smoking:
     
  14. haha.i am high right now:smoking:

    but yea.i like her.alot.on sum real shit.if i wasnt earlier.
    like when we both high.she on that st8 wifey shit.lol.
    but she got mad flaws wit her attitude around st8 dudes.
    she keeps 2 herself n like has a guard up cuz she musta
    got her heart broke hard at one point.
     
  15. glad someone agrees with me, otherwise i would feel like a dick.

    and actually i wasn't talking about your spelling, i was actually going on the fact that you had your friend call her up to see if she had a crush on you for one, and also just the way you describe your situation sounds so childish man, like the fact you havn't given her a hug, i have no fucking idea what to make of that. anyway not trying to be a dick, but you gotta understand that girls like confidence, they can sense when your confident and when your not, like how a dog can smell fear. and you going onto an internet forum and questioning what not getting a hug means does not exactly prove your confidence.
     
  16. i feel u on that shit.

    but its just complicating all together.
    n im making it complicating by being a pussy,scared to hug the bitch.
     
  17. say these words

    "I don't give a fuck"

    When she's around that's what you need to think. Don't think about if she's uncomfortable with a hug, just do it and don't worry about it. If you worry about it and build it up to more than what it is, she'll pick up on it and get weirded out, if you act like it aint no thang, then it aint no thang, ya feel me?

    This goes for a lot of things when it comes to male female relations.
     


















  18. :confused:
     
  19. i cant picture myself doin it

    but im just gonna do it n hope for the best.
     
  20. if she aint comfortable with a hug, just give her a kiss on the cheek, i do it jokingly to my lady friends all the time.
     

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