So me and my girlfriend, who are both virgins, have tried at least 10 times to have sex and I always lose the boner...it's really lame and fucking sucks cause we're both ready. She's going to the doctor to get birth control but that takes a month to work and we really want to have sex...A lot of the problem is I'm so worried about losing my boner that I end up losing it which fucking sucks. A couple times we've gotten close, but I don't have a full boner and she's a virgin and really tight and my dick starts to bend and it fucking hurts, and then I lose my boner...So idk what to do. We both really don't want to wait the month but were also not going to have unprotected sex. Is there something I can take to help me keep a boner? Weed usually gives me a boner but idk if it'd help. As for now and the next few days Mother Nature is cockblocking me soooo...