Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for 1 month n a couple weeks. we've done it all, but her bj's and handjobs aren't really that great, but the sex is. but no matter what we do, i cannot finish, and it's really frustrating. Its definetly not her, shes a really cute chick, and i really like her, i jus can't finish Any ideas why? and any ways to fix this...
Yeah when you have it on your mind you arnt going to finish you simply won't. It's the same idea as when a guy is nervous and thinks he is going to finish way to fast...he does. Sex has a lot to do with your mentality, it is what you make it in your head and the mindset your in. That's why when you make love it is so much better because you have all these feelings for the person and it's so much more than getting off. But back to the subject just stop thinking about it and enjoy it to the fullest, once your mind is off of it, it will happen. Might take awhile to get your mind off it but when that day comes you'll hardley ever find yourself in the same situation with her.
Snap - cept the blowies are great. but shes never bin able to make me finish with head. And the sex lasts for ages!
Yeah, I'm a professional puller-outer. Also have sex sober, not high or anything. I last for an hour unless im completely sober.
its not like im freaking out about not finishing during, it's just frustrating at a certain point. I almost always do reach a point where im positive ill nut, and then i dont, and i never reach that point again.
THINK about it when you're bangin the shit out of her. When you feel like you're going to nut, just think about sex. Hot, steamy, nasty sex. The good stuff that you wank to.
I've only finished prolly half the times I've had sex..at most. The girl just always finishes before me..doesn't matter. I'm still happy in the end. My goals to please her mostly. With sex..it's always better to finish late then early. Point proved. Sorry mr stoned..
Dont use condoms, Do it sober, maybe have a tug but dont finish just before you're about to meet up with her for sex, watch some porn before foreplay etc, use lube.
Whack it before she comes over, get real fucking exicted. Paint your room over ok, and when you're done just take a really wet, hot towel and wipe your Johnson off(You don't want her knowing you use scented Jergins to beat your meat) then take some time for foreplay and go for it, bang like a big hefty sunuvabitch has a gun to your head. You'll hopefully be able to go the distance, and give her a nice load of man-chowder on her chest.
If you're taking any medications check and see if they can cause this type of problem. My concerta used to make it almost impossible to finish while having sex even if I took it at 7 AM and didn't do anything until late that night. So I definitely couldn't finish if she was doing all the work. If that's not the case then try playing with her while she's doing her job. It can really distract some girls so she might make you stop if she can't focus. If my hand is working its magic on her while she's working on me then I'm guaranteed to be done for. Otherwise I can't finish either so it's not just you. Another thing could be communication. If she isn't very good at bjs or hjs then talk to her and help her learn how to be good at it by teaching her what you like. It's one of those things that pays for itself very quickly. Also make sure to get her to show you all the stuff she likes. It'd be damn near crazy to have a relationship with a person if you guys can't talk about the very same stuff you're doing in the bed together.