Cant cum to a conclusion during sex

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Cheap Thrills 9, Jan 22, 2014.

  1. Does anyone else have this problem. I have never finished during sex in my life. I've had sex 7 times with 3 girls. Each time I was either drunk, high, or sober. No bust. I'm not gay because I jerk off to huge lesbian orgies and cum in like a minute lol. If anyone else has this problem and overcame it please help.
     
  2. Hit it raw if you are used to wearing a condom and you'll probably be a Father in a matter of minutes.
     
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  3. i laughed so hard for some reason lmao


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  4. Ummmm ? You are in love with yourself


    You probably just think about it to much and stress yourself out, I suggest trying anal or a virgin
     
  5. I would fuck a chick in the ass but that's so unrealistic.
     
  6. Dude, chicks like anal, most of them, they just pretend they don't...


    Women are bigger horn dogs than men most of them
     
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  7. Haha I'll take your word for it cause I don't have much expierience. Also whenever I talk about anal with a chick I pretend like I don't like it either
     
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  9. #9 Shiva Blaster, Jan 22, 2014
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    Consider yourself lucky, most young dudes have the opposite problem and are dumping their loads after a couple of feeble pumps, lol.
     
    The cause of both problems is the same though.......almost everything to do with sex is 100% mental.   For guys that cum to quickly, they start focusing and obsessing about coming too early, and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.    With you, it's likely the same thing.....the first couple of times you couldn't cum, and now you've been obsessing over it, and making it a thing.   Instead of just enjoying sex and letting it happen, you are just worrying about cumming the whole time which takes away from the experience.
     
    Just try to relax, enjoy yourself, and don't think about it.    When you are feeling yourself getting closer, you can always switch to your favorite position, or get your girl to do something that drives you crazy and puts you over the top.   Ask her if you can cum on her.......she can lay back and play with herself, and you can watch and jerk off like you would when you are alone.   A hot naked girl waiting to get spunked on usually does the trick for me pretty damn quick, lol
     
    When in doubt, you can even get her to slip a finger in........   ;)
     
  10. Well there's your problem, speaking in literary terms the conclusion is the most boring part of a story, it's just stuff getting nicely wrapped up.  If you want to cum you need to focus on the climax, makes much more sense in story and sex terms.
     
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  11. they don't call it the money-shot for nothing!  It's the show-stopper!
     
  12. Just don't cum in her eye..that shit hurts.
     
  13. #13 turbotoke, Jan 22, 2014
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    Ba dun tss
     
    Really though glad someone understood what I was getting at
     
  14. #14 I Am Neo, Jan 22, 2014
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    Quit watching porn and whackin' it bro. That'll leave you limp at the wrong time.
     
    I'm kinda busy right now, and wind up going two or three days at a time without a visit from Miss Rosie and her daughters. That's plenty long enough for an iron boner that'll pop in a minute. And I'm past my prime...but sometimes the batteries have to recharge.
     
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  15. cumming is the conclusion of sex......
     
  16. #16 KushMastaFlex, Jan 22, 2014
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    Your strokin your mushroom tip too much to porn, chill the fuck out. Probably at minimal sensitivity right now with all that chafe. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
     
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  17. Not when speaking in terms relative to basic storytelling, the climax of sex is the climax, using multiple meanings there of course.
     
    The relationship and previous events between the people are the Prologue.
    Foreplay is the Introduction.
    The beginning of sex is the Rising Action.
    Cumming is the Climax of the story.
    Being in the sexual afterglow and reveling in the previous events is the Falling Action.
    Cuddling or leaving or whatever else comes after is the Conclusion to that tale.
     
    Of course in most stories there are things that go wrong that add plot to it all, here you just hope that nothing goes bad.
     
  18. It's probably a combination of the condom and being drunk/high that's causing issues. Have sex sober or try having sex with someone you care about. That might be it too, one night stands aren't for everyone. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
     
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  19. Hi. My boyfriend had the same problem. He never finished when we had sex. We tried and tried but no way. We studied what to do and after we saw an article about sex toys, we bought one masturbation egg at onlinesexshop.us .
     
    After this, he plays with the egg before having sex. When he is near to finish, he leaves the egg and start with me. Now he can cum!
     
  20. Nerves my man, it'll stop

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