I've only had sex a few times and am pretty new to it so I'm still finding out what I like and don't like. I really like to have oral preformed on me (don't we all) but can not seem to cum. It felt great but it was a little frustrating for me and the ladies involved not to be able to finish. The girl from Friday even felt kind of bad after and kept say things like "you didn't like that much did you" and "what's wrong" because I had to finish myself off. Does this happen to anyone else?
You could have some ED or "death grip syndrome" going on. The later is when you penis has become so used to achieving orgasm by means of porn and masturbation, that other forms of stimulation dont really do anything for you, since they are less arousing. Or you said your new, so you dont know some good head from some bad head. The girl might just not be that hot at it. And if your drunk your prone to whiskey dick, which is never fun.
i can still cum from sex but maybe your right and I have desensitized my dick from masturbation. Ill try to lay off the porn for a few weeks before the next time. There is that possibility as well but both chicks seemed to be really good at it, especially the lady from Friday I thought for sure she was going suck my dick clean off.
I didn't get off from head until I was 21. I knew at least one of my friends in hs that couldn't either. It's nothing to worry about.
because jerking yourself off with your hand really fast gets you off quicker than half-time mouth movements, despite how good it feels
Thanks man maybe I just need to relax more or something. I'm really thankful that I finally do get head now cuz I've been missing out. I wish I knew bro its weird because I thought I woul get to excited and cum super quick. But now it's a little frustrating when I can't cum and this chick wants nothin more than for me to cum in her mouth.
Honestly, I can cum from BJs but i understand the difficulty. I got my first bj last year from my current gf and she was surprised I lasted as long as i did (maybe like 20-30 mins). Def takes a good technique (especially when you've jerked it as much as most dudes our age have). She's gotta mix it up with some tongue, some hand, some depth, some teasin, some accelerating rhythm, and she can't get too frustrated too easily. I have a feeling that girls in relationships give the best head because 1. They get the most practice 2. They're much more excited/generous to do it than hookups
I've only ever been with 1 girl. And I'm still swith her 5 years later.. that being said, er blowjobs blew... Big time, just like you, I loved getting them, but couldnt cum. I sure can now though.. I think the girl just needs practice... Oh. And shave your balls and get her to suck them while she strokes you off. Holy fuck.
for real, you dudes need to go like one week without even touching your dick unless it's to take a piss, then you'll fucking explode in the girls mouth (assuming she doesn't suck at giving head)