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can smoking more help me become a nicer guy?(long)

Discussion in 'Medical Marijuana Usage and Applications' started by jimboob, Feb 14, 2009.

  1. (posted this somewhere else, thought it might get some replies here too)

    i like to think of myself as a nice guy, but idk i think i come off as kinda cold. especially to my familly, i snap at my mom whenever she asks me to do somthing. i feel bad and i've tried to change, but i can't, idk why.

    and with just random people im kinda agressive. like i never start anything, but if i think someones tryin to pull some shit i go on the offensive.im a short guy, bout 5'3, and my whole life i have had people walk all over me or fuck with me. i think i just gradually got tired of it and now i don't trust anyone. I've gotten into some insane stare offs with people. like i try to be nice, with most people i have no problem. but i can't stand some shit. i've had a guy throw his fucking hamburger at my car. a fuckin hamburger. dickheads. now whenever i think someones gonna fuck with me, i make sure nothing happends. i make sure no matter how big they are nothings gona happen. i'm not like this ALL the time, just certain situations.

    also, when im not on the offensive, and im with my friends, im mad funny. like have a real good sense of humor. but i noticed everything that comes outta my mouth is a joke (literally) and i dont get taken seriosuly alot (i think thats how i lost my last girl).

    theres this guy i met at my last job, this guy smokes mad weed, but he's so chill man. nicest guy i've ever met in my life. he's not like hippie or anything he's just got good morals i guess, despite him growing up in the same area at me. i respect this kid alot. i want people to respect me you know?

    so if you didn't wana read all that, my question is, you think smoking more (not 24/7..) could help me have a little more patience with my familly, be less negative towards people i don't know, and mellow out a bit while still keepin ma funny? or should i work on it sober? i basicly know how i wana change in my head, its just hard to put that plan into action.
     
  2. smoking makes all people react different to a certain extent. personaly it makes me more relaxed and at ease with life and what im doin. as a kid i always felt angry and still think i do have some anger problems. but when im high shit doesnt matter. im more patient and understanding,

    haha o ya you dont have aspergers. thats hillarious!!!
     
  3. ghaha or this one either.
     

  4. alright yea thanks i don't think i have either of those haha. i think it was more of my surroundings as i grew up that made me kinda not trust some people.
     
  5. #7 Madrid, Feb 14, 2009
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    I'm telling you all my life I had been anti social and afraid of people, thinking I don't need them. I was a complete schizoid. Within one month I was completely cured of this disorder. I haven't smoked for a year but my love of people has not gone!

    I am still much more open when I smoke, but my fundamental feelings and beliefs and appreciation for people has changed completely and I am not anti social whatsoever just not super loud and talkative.
     
  6. So give it a try for a couple weeks and see! There is no way to predict how cannabis will affect a person. USUALLY it makes a person calmer and more relaxed, but some people get panic attacks or paranoid. Give it a try, see if it works and if it does Yippie! :hello: . If it doesn't work for you, you are no worse off than you were before.

    I've used cannabis for over 40 years. Most folks think I'm nice. I use every day and work in a high stress job.
     
  7. Since I started smoking on a daily basis, my tolerance for just about anything has gone up, my mood has become more relaxed, and I'm in general a more caring person.

    So try it and if it works, great. Otherwise, sheer force of will might be your only solution.

    Oh, and I have a friend that's JUST like you and since he started smoking more 3-5 days of the week, he is a MUCH nicer person and much harder to REALLY piss off.

    So I just recommend trying it!
     

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