[quote name='"thegreysniper"']almost 21 y/o, still a virgin, couldnt even get the school whores to fuck me back in high school,,, lol im convinced im gonna die a lonely, lonely virgin lol[/quote] Maybe it was because you called them the school whores?
Lost mine at 16. Couldn't imagine marrying a person and not knowing if we were sexually compatible beforehand. You try on shoes before you buy them, or test drive a car, what's the difference?
You say that, but a female losing her virginity during a one night stand does NOT sound like a good time to either person. It'll be all awkward and painful and messy. Nope.
Wow, this thread makes me feel so awkward yet so reassured at the same time. Yeah, I'm a virgin and I'm 19. I've lived in the countryside all my life with no driving license so it's hard to get out, especially when I only have my mum to rely on who takes pills in case she has an anxiety attack while driving. I dunno who, if anyone would agree but I blame living in isolation for having no women in my life at all. Although I am moving into town, I feel like I have no game. I have had my chances but from folk below my standards and I don't think I'm going to let 'just anyone' take it so I guess I'm going to wait for a 'special someone' in my life. Oh. I know it sucks and all but chin up guys!! If you've got a cock n' balls, you have the chance. Not that I'd know but that's how I see it.
Fucking=meaningless sex Sex=act of reproduction Making love= Meaningful emotion filled sex with some one you truely love srry not really related to the thread
If you've still got your V-Card FYI for $50-600 (depending on your tastes, morals, budget) that can be gotten rid of quite easily. Hookers are fun ya'll. Or excuse me, escorts are fun.
I don't want to be "that guy" but sex is just science. We are animals with primative instincts. Haha that's how i lost my virginity. I talked to this girl I liked about science and how it's crazy that a guy nuts in a girl and a baby comes out 9 months later.
lmao, i am pretty sure you can figure out if you're sexually compatible without having intercourse. not like we never touched each other and then on our wedding night went all the way. we fooled around a lot and did everything but sex. so we were vary comfortable our first time together. She had an orgasm the vary first time we had sex too, so it's silly thinking that you have to have sex before marriage to have a great sex life. I can count on one hand how many times my wife hasn't had an orgasm during intercourse we're doing just fine even being virgins getting together
Is your avatar a picture of yourself? lol (just kidding) Fuck yeah man, me and my love were both virgins, but.. we're not married yet, way too soon, but I don't ever want anyone else though and neither does she.
Sometimes it all comes down to the upbringing, ya feel me? I had a very sheltered and awkward childhood. You know how that affects the rest of your life? Just take a peek in a psychologist's handbook. Other times, it's simply choice. Some people, i.e. me, are just selective. "Morals" also play a big hand. Morals are a social construct. I could be a guy who fucks everything that moves, but it wouldn't morally "feel right" to me. Also, sex is a basic human instinct, but so is murder. But for the sake of not reverting back to our cavemen ancestors who lacked the conventions to have a wider range of communication, we all have to deal with it.
[quote name='"hhbhagat1417"'] I had a very sheltered and awkward childhood. You know how that affects the rest of your life? [/quote] All to well.