Today while meeting up with my dealer. I offered to smoke him out (you know to be nice). Well, we get in his car and he loads a bowl and we start smoking. I starting French inhaling and he says "that's cute" and he's a bit of smart ass so I didn't take it too seriously. Then he tells me I take "bitch hits, And to watch and see how it was done." I then tell him it's dark so I kinda can't see and I don't remember why we didn't turn On the lights. So I ask how am I gonna know what a "real " hit is and he took a hit grabbed me and shotgunned it (it was great hit). Well, we ended up making out and he tried to go further. But idk I just couldn't do it. Now I don't know if I can even call him when I need some bud now. And he was my main one What do I do?help?!
Haha this! The worst case scenario you get some free weed since you'll become his girll If you don't want to, just act as if nothing happened and hit him up for pot, then go. Smoking with him again will just hint to escalate things again.
if your into then go for it girl, you'll probably get a fat hook up out of it and a fuck buddy, win win. but if your not let him know and keep it to just buying weed, don't lead him on. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Shit for real free bud where I'm from it's 25 a G. 20 if you know some one. Well, damn.. I sound pot whore haa jk this is my first scenario like this
If you want to pursue that relationship, be extremely careful. I have a few friends who got into a load of shit because they were dating their dealer.
[quote name="stupidstoner" post="19434646" timestamp="1391088837"]If you want to pursue that relationship, be extremely careful. I have a few friends who got into a load of shit because they were dating their dealer.[/quote] like what? Just give a few examples.
you tell guys they cant just randomly try to fondle you without your consent. its your body, not theirs. thats what you do.
One friend ended up with a guy who was constantly cheating on her and treating her like dirt. Another ended up with a guy who stashed shit at her house and when the cops scooped him up, she got dragged with him. Another got addicted to unmentionables the guy was also selling and ended up selling herself and giving the money to the guy. These aren't common, and I'm sure your dealer is nothing like these assholes. I'm just letting you know that you really should proceed with caution.
They were making out....you don't start making out and then be like "please ma'am may i touch your pleasantries?" You make a move and sometimes get shut down.
[quote name="stupidstoner" post="19434933" timestamp="1391094351"]One friend ended up with a guy who was constantly cheating on her and treating her like dirt. Another ended up with a guy who stashed shit at her house and when the cops scooped him up, she got dragged with him.Another got addicted to unmentionables the guy was also selling and ended up selling herself and giving the money to the guy. These aren't common, and I'm sure your dealer is nothing like these assholes. I'm just letting you know that you really should proceed with caution.[/quote]Thanks, definitely not getting into that situation. I'm just not feeling all of that!
nah, thats how MOST guys do it, that doesnt mean thats how it HAS to be done. having some respect for people's body and boundaries goes a long way.
idkkk man, if i was making out with a dude and he asked before going for a boobie grab that'd kill the mood real quick lol. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Theres respect, and theres being too much of a pussy to make a move without asking. You dont gotta rape the girl to move things to the next level ffs. You can be totally respectful and start making a move slowly and accept the rejection if it happens.