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Bud-Related Social Situation. Any Advice?

Discussion in 'Cannabis Consumption Q&A & Tips' started by DamnLongHairs, Sep 18, 2014.

  1. #1 DamnLongHairs, Sep 18, 2014
    So, a friend of mine/ex co-worker, is who originally got me into smoking. And he's a pretty cool guy and all, not to mention my main hookup. Which was all well and good since we worked the same schedule. He had his dealer, and he in turn was my dealer. But now that I'm working somewhere else, our schedules are too conflicting, and he being the kind of pot-head he is, whenever I get around to where I can actually buy some from him, he's either all out, or doesn't have enough to sell, to me, he has to go get more. Which would be fine.. if he actually did it for me. I've asked him a couple times for his dealer's number, who I've met on multiple occasions, and even have smoked with, she's an awesome older woman who just likes to get high, and keeps a pretty damn good stock. Pounds of lows, and ounces of mids. This woman is loaded in green. So yeah, I've asked for her number from him, and he always immediately gets hostile, and acts shitty towards me about it, so I've backed off. I want to be able to buy from her directly, and I know where she lives, so I could just knock and ask her? But I've never done anything like that before, and I don't know how she would react. I wish this fucker would just give me her number, or talk to her for me, to contact me in some way. But he just refuses to. I don't know what his deal is. Any advice?

     
  2. #2 As Above So Below, Sep 18, 2014
    He's just trying to protect his supplier. I don't usually give out my connects to anyone, no matter how well I know you. Me and my buddies smoked for years and I had my connects and they had theirs.
     
    It has nothing to do with being an asshole.
     
    He is on good terms with her and probably buys weight from her. 
     
    I know you think you will never do this but if he were to give you her number and for some reason you fuck her over, his ass is basically on the line too since he introduced you to her.
     
    And I don't think you are buying weight from her, it sounds like you would be buying 8ths or quarters. 
     
    From my personal view, if you are a dealer moving weight, you don't want to have to deal with 50 different people to sell your shit. That's 50 different things that can go wrong that will fuck you up. It's better to deal weight to a few selective people and then let them do the distribution. 
     
    Your friend buys weight, you probably don't. 
     
    All in all it comes down to him protecting his source, I'd do the same if it were me.
     
  3. #3 DamnLongHairs, Sep 18, 2014
    He buys in quarters as well, is the thing, since he's got a low paying job. But fair enough, I understand the protecting thing.
     
    Just blows that I can never get the dude to hook me up when I ask him too, even if I plan it out. He's damn forgetful. Hopefully things will work out well in my favour soon. Thanks for the answer, man.
     
  4. #4 As Above So Below, Sep 18, 2014
    Believe me man, I've been smoking for many years and you will always find a new and better hookup. It might take some time but it will happen. I used to meet tons of people at parties, and even if they don't deal themselves, they can usually hook you up.
     
    When you meet a new person who doesn't actually deal, let them be the middle men for a few transactions just so they can see you aren't trying to overstep them. Buy a little more than you usually would. Once you've established the fact that you smoke weed, are not a narc, and buy more than a gram every time, ask for their dealers number. Just be like, I've bought from you a few times, I really appreciate it, but I don't like having to hassle you to get me bud, when you don't really get anything out of it. Can I get your dealers number or can you introduce me?
     
    Always ask! Be nice about it even if they say no.
     
    I've asked for intro's many times and believe me as long as you are a good, consistent buyer, they will have no problems giving you an intro, it does work!
     
  5. #5 DamnLongHairs, Sep 18, 2014
    Great advice man. I'll stick to it and see where it leads me. I don't actually party, ever, I'm kind of a hermit, unless it's a small group of friends or so, which will hinder me finding any other randoms. But yeah, I'll take what you've said and put it into practice where I can.
     
    Thanks again!
     
  6. #6 Questabella, Sep 18, 2014
    You should have asked for her number when ya chilled with her. He probably skimps your bag thats why he doesnt want to give her number to you. I doubt your buddy is a big pusher or even grabs large from her since he never has enough to chop to you. Be cool with him and next time you chill altoghether ask for her number in front of your buddy and see if he has anything to say to about it.

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  7. #7 ThePolishPuertoRican, Sep 18, 2014
    If there's a way you can smoke with her again, or see her in general, ask for her number yourself. I mean the way I see it, if I trust you, I'll give you my dealers number because dealers want to make money...it wouldn't make sense not to give you her number
     

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