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breaking off an engagement

Discussion in 'Experienced Cannabis Enthusiasts' started by hozomeen, Dec 12, 2006.

  1. i don't usually post personal/emotional stuff on here, but this is a big thing in my life so i thought i would. i've been with this girl for 5 1/2 years. been engaged to her for about a year, we were going to get married this june. she broke up with me tonight.

    i won't drag you through the details. it's gonna be okay...this was something mary jane told me needed to be done a long time ago, but i wasn't listening. she's the best friend i have, and we truly are working through all this shit together. i have absolutely no regrets.

    i've been driving around bawling like a baby with my bro, and i just got home and rolled a j. this one's for all the people who mean so much to you in your life, and to those who've helped you become a better person.
     
  2. and since i am no longer dry i will smoke a joint with ya my man! i have gone through a similar situation today, actually.
     
  3. nothing else I can say, cept that that sucks, and i'm sorry that happened to ya . . . oh yeah, and, :bongin:
     
  4. just be glad she did it now and not after you got married.


    this is a story that makes hookers look like godesses.
     
  5. Bad news, old boy.. I'm right there with you. Broke out of a 2 1/2 year engagement just a few months ago. Luckily we didnt tell anybody in the family yet. How about with you?
     
  6. In a sense they are. Being truthful is a god-inspired trait, and hookers always tell you exactly what to expect.
     
  7. My sympathies. Before I found marijuana, I had a bad breakup of a year relationship a long time ago that tore me up inside. I can only imagine what you are going through.

    I hope Mary keeps you warm tonight. She's a good girl. Stay strong. Just remember, this too shall pass.
     
  8. this shit sucks, and i know there is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better. when i went through that shit, we were only together for alittle over a year, but we were inseperable... and i lost my boyfriend and best friend in one shot. it sucks cause you don't know what to do... they're not there to do those little things like go to shoprite and shit with you anymore. i hate it. cause i still think about all that bullshit. if you guys been together that long, it has to work out. for me, he was a bitch and we didnt speak again cause he refused. just toke for now. you'll feel alittle better.
     
  9. broke it off with my girl of 4 years yesterday morning. sucks. weed was a big part of it, she hates the stuff. ive been stoned ever since, heh.

    i miss the hell out of her though

    its good to see that your confortable with the way things are man, get through it, it sounds like your doin alright. ill smoke one for ya here in about 15 minutes.


    p.s. i think im going to be a blacksmith.
     
  10. I feel you bro. I had a girl leave me that I thought was the one. I would have went to the end of the world for this girl. She was the most important thing in my life, I would have died for her. Eventually our relationship started going downhill, and I did everything I could to save the relationship to no avail. I still miss her, the time we spent together, having someone call you to ask how your day was because they love you. I still thing about her everyday, where she is, what shes doing, who shes with, and if the person shes with is treating her how she deserves to be treated. I guess in the end, you deserve someone that loves you ask much as you love them. I miss you alison, and I love you, wherever you are.

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  11. Man im sorry to hear that bro. I hope everything plays out the way it should.
     
  12. thanks for the support guys. damn, it looks like several long term relationships are ending right now. my sympathies also go out to all of you, hope you're all managing to hold it together. has bud helped you to deal with it? it seems to with me. when i start getting upset about it again, i smoke and remember it's going to be alright. trying to get to the frame of mind where i remember that when i'm sober too, but it will probably be awhile.

    durchii--yeah most of our families know now. but you know, we've all been together for so long that we're all talking to each other. i'm going to talk to her mom later, and laura will probably talk to mine. we're all very close and will probably get through all the shit together. that's probably why i'm handling it well.

    although last night was my first night without her for about 2 years, and that cold bed shit really sucks. especially when you wake up and think she's there.
     
  13. better now than after june ;)

    seriously. your a lucky dude,

    soo many people get married then find out they're not compatable and the guy almost always gets screwed, cheers mate.. this bongs to you.
     
  14. bud helped me alot. i've been smoking every day since we broke up last year, cause i couldnt depend on him as corny as it is i could depend on bud. then after a while blazin everyday just became a regular.
    i also joked around about my piece, i called it my new boyfriend, since it was the same situation.. sex wasnt great but he still smoked me up everyday.:p
     
  15. hey man, i feel you....i just broke up with my girlfriend of 2.3 years and it sucked even tho it was my choice it was still really hard...smoking really helped me...helped me in my last bad break up as well...it just calms you down, and totally takes your mind off of things for a while...i love it...good luck man and you will get thru it...check out the song "your not a lone" by Saosin...pretty good song
     
  16. I'm sorry dude :( I know that no words will ever be enough to comfort you at a time like this. You'll be okay in the end though, promise.

    I was with a guy pretty much for 3 years on and off, when he broke up with me it destroyed me inside, and that was a few months ago and I still haven't gotten over it. So I kinda know how you feel even though we weren't engaged or anything like that. I've been in love with him for 4 years since I was 15, but I guess he just didn't want me anymore.
     
  17. My veryyyyyyyy first gf I was with for 4 1/2 years and we were inseperable for like the first 2 years then after that we just grew farther and farther apart and ended breaking up ... it took me like a year to get over her and that was probably the hardest time of my life ... never felt that depressed before. But after a while ya know, I realized that it just wasn't meant to be and I met someone new and moved on with my life! It's really hard to deal with at first, but you just have to be strong and see the light at the end of the tunnel:)
     
  18. My ex lives in CT, every time I see that sign in your sig it makes me cringe! :D
     

  19. my ex lives in ct too! what a coincidence! LOL sorry it makes ya cringe :p
     
  20. its best it happened b4 marriage
     

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