So I just recently went through a break up and have been a little unsure of what the "rules" are. I was in a long distance relationship but found it wasnt working out. Now I waited until I came back home for break to break it off with her. She was very needy and is still texting me. She originally just asked some questions the next day and I thought it was because she needed to hear it again so I answered it. Then she texted a few days later when I had my flight back here to wish me a happy thanksgiving and tell me she hoped my flight went well. I have yet to answer a few texts since the ones the day after the break up. Just tonight she texted me asking what she did to make her so dead to me, why did I drop her like that? Now I'm pretty sure she is doing this to guilt me into talking to her again and I honestly don't want to get back together with her and am currently exploring other relationships so I would not like to give her false hope. I was wondering what the standards are with break ups? Should I be answering those texts or not?