What is a (boy) TO DO? So the liquor store I go to has a young cashier with multi colored hair & a body that I can't tell IT'S sex. How about one of those old name tags that says "hello my name is xyz" but change it to "hello my sex is xyz" too easy/simple? I want to be able to address said person politely. If it has one of those names that don't help identify a gender I'm gonna . The usual terms like Dude, bro, hon don't seem to fit.
Just buy your liquor and move on. Be polite, no need to address the person as she/he/they/them/toaster/unicorn.
Never been an issue with me. My conversations with them basically go: "hows it going?" "good, you?" "good. cash or credit?" "credit" "need a receipt?" "nope" "have a good day" "you too"
SO impersonal for someone you see often. See how easy A-holes label you for trying to be polite! IT WAS AN HONEST QUESTION, NO TROLLING! I just know eventually I'm gonna slip up & call him/her the wrong thing. I am normally extremely good at judging age/sex weight (part of my former job) this one has me stumped.
I been here ...I been here!!! I noticed whats its name, didn't have a name tag on as per everyone else did, I asked for the manager and complained, next visit 'it' was wearing the name tag id'ed as Robin? lol (Robin a bi sexual name in my hood)
If you want to chat that's fine. I think its easy to make small-talk without their gender playing a factor.
External sex parts (danglers) = MALE Internal sex parts (setters) = FEMALE No bits at all = IT. Period. I am so fucking done with it all. You can put lipstick and high heels on a giraffe but it is still a....... Life was simpler back when you didn't need a DNA printout to really know who or what you are dating. =================Web Below are 107 gender identities currently listed for 2023. (These are the more commonly known gender identities - as listed on Wikipedia at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_gender_identities - and is subject to change at any time.)Dec 7, 2022 ============================== End
When Joe Bidens surgeon general can't even define what a woman is, America is fucked... I was in the medical field for 27 years, it was always pretty easy to define what a woman is...
LOL yeah I got the basics but they can be clever with short haircuts & big baggy clothes WTF knows??? How do (insert the correct word for "you people" address each other? Is bitch & dude still gender neutral, if not polite??? I just don't know anymore.
I know the owner & everyone else in the store by a first name, SO is it me??? SO I have to walk on eggshells around a store employee being a good customer and all? Employees should wear an Id badge That includes sex. Too far?
Just make your purchases, don't want to chance getting cancelled because you didn't acknowledge; or in this case potentially "misidentify" someone elses particular mental baggage.
Say, "Hey dumbass" And if they turn and look that's on them. Works on anyone Say whatever you feel, if they get offended then tell them you identify as a bigot, and if they don't allow your bigotry then they're murdering you.