So I've had my eye on this girl since school started and after a few weeks we've finally become pretty close. Tonight I was at her room cause she couldnt sleep so we just cuddled and watched tv. After a little while things happen and I'm getting the best dome ever, seriously the best dome I've ever gotten. But a dilemma arises... can't bust a nut. I then thought back to my ex who I fucked almost every day and realized I never came from a blowjob. I just can't do it. Usually when I cum during sex its not just from pleasure, but a combination of the girl moaning, facial expressions, contact, etc. When I get head I just chill there... which is cool, but not when this girl wants me to bust one for her. I could tell she was disappointed and so was I. Anyone have any advice on what to do with this predicament? tl;dr- cant cum when getting dome... what can I do?
Sounds like a personal problem... GOOD LUCK!! Really though, i cant bust while getting brain either. Just tell her she's giving the best ones ever but your more of man than that!! You need that poon!
I've noticed that is actually pretty normal for guys not to cum solely from head alone. Most of the time it is obvious that they are really digging it due to their own moans, twitches, and pre cum. I use blowies as a way to transition from making out into sex. It helps me get more turned on so that when my jaw or neck start to hurt I can tell him its time to put it in elsewhere. In your case I'd tell her it was great and thank her, then try to see if she will let you try to get her off. This could lead to sex and hopefully you'll both be able to please each other then. If not, don't be afraid to ask her if you can jerk it on her tits when you're feeling close. But be sure to be a gentleman and help her get cleaned off. Cold jizz is gross.
Same problem here, i get close to cumming from fucking my girl then she goes down to blow me right away then i don't cum. It sucks man, the worst part is i'll only last like 5 minutes while fucking her
yea i dont usually cum from head unless its been a long time since ive gotten any kind of sexual healing or unless im fucking her face like its her pussy. it feels great but i just cant cum most of the time.
i know that when i watch porn, more often then not they have 'the money shot' where the dude is jerking it onto the face, tits, pussy or ass of the girl he's been fucking. i seem to take that into the bedroom and tell my dude to give me a facial or cum on my chest. i like watching dudes get off, so it works for me.
did anyone else hear a harmonica playing when they thought of this thread? and yeah man I only cum when I get bjs after sex (been awhile though)