So, I come with a rather odd question. I'm gonna leave it here, then head to the gym and then come back and see what's good. My birthday was yesterday, and I had a pretty good day. Smoked a lot of weed, got gifted weed, and generally chilled and had a good day with my friends. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year and a half now so we know each other pretty well. She had work until 8:30 pm, so after that she came over to my apartment. She didn't stay the night the night before cause we thought she was still contagious with a cold she had and I didn't want to get sick on my birthday. She usually stays the night. Now, let me backtrack just a bit. Prior to this we hadn't had sex for about 3 days cause she was sick and we were both very busy. So I figured my birthday would be perfect for sex, right? In fact, leading up to this day I didn't even rub one out waiting so this sex could be perfecto magnifico. Ya know? Back to the present, my girl arrive around 8:30 and some of my friends are already there and smoking and whatnot and we are eating pizza and celebrating with cookies, cake, pop, etc, a party dammit. Girl joins and we have a great night. 11 pm rolls around. My girl says she wants to hit the hay. I'm like, "Okay honey let me hit this last bowl real quick then I'll be right up!" My good buddy has a loaded bowl in his hand and hands it to me to spark greens cause it's my b-day. We roll this bowl in probably 3 or 4 minutes and then I go upstairs to have sex with my girlfriend. I hop into bed and she tell me my feet are smelly. Haha okay I laugh and take off my socks which actually smell (My feet were clean). Then I curl up with her spooning her and kiss her lightly on the cheek. And then the neck and she says, "We're not having sex tonight." 'Hold up. What!?!? Girl, we're "Not having sex tonight?" This is some bullshit.' < That was all in my mind for those who don't get the punctuation, I would never say that to a girl Me- "Oh, okay..." Her- 'Yeah, I'm just tired, if you would have asked earlier I would have had sex with you, but you just waited too long." Me- "Oh, I just thought we were having fun enjoying time hanging out with our friends (The people over for the party were all good friends of both of us)." Her- "Yeah, well I'm just tired now so I don't wanna have sex tonight." Me- "Hmm... okay." Now back in my head I was just like... Come on girl, what is this shit? I didn't jerk off for you, and we hadn't had sex in I think like 5 days or something like that cause we were so busy. 3 to 5 at least I'm not sure. So I just figured screw it and went to sleep with her. Wake up today, she leaves, and now I'm sitting here thinking about it more and more and it just is pissing me off more and more. What is y'alls take? TL;DR: If you can't focus and read for the 3 minutes it takes to read my story you are a complete buffoon and need to go back to about 4th grade.
Hahaha can you say blue balls! Just kidding I don't know about you and your girlfriend but my girlfriend likes it when I "rape" her. You should've just been forceful with it lol
I would have just started jerking wildly after putting the socks close to her head . . . "Sorry babe its my birthday . . ." Then I would have lit the sheets on fire to see what she was really about . . .
well besides that, it sounds like a pretty chill birthday. and you definitely can't get hung up on it, but that definitely is a letdown. This year my girl was on her red flag on my b-day and she couldn't stop apologizing the whole day so I feel you, especially if it was because she was "tired". What happens if we ever actually got bombed back in the day? You wouldn't be too tired to grab your shit, pack up, and book it the fuck out. You should be straight up in a nice way about it. Don't sound like you were entitled to it, just be honest about why it bummed you out.
Exactly what I was thinking. It isn't like she's mad at you for some bullshit reason or anything, she was tired. Would you rather fuck her when shes awake and ready to go, or when she's tired and just wants to go to sleep? How much fun would that be?
You didn't over react, but this is lesson for next time; Screw if your friends are there or not....Take her to the room and make her see GOD!........or whatever she may believe in
^ I know a lot of girls who like that too. Be aggressive after they say no. Not a rape-type thing. Some couples just play like that
lol i think it's kind of shitty to let you know that you used to have a window of opportunity. if only YOU had asked earlier but i guess people can't help when they're tired.
I think I saw another thread by OP where girlfriend would buy everyone in the group 45 cent coffees. TL;DR- OP's gf is 65