Just joined, growing for around 20 years (in the shed) and I go by the maxim of if you tell no one, then no one knows. My kids don't know and neither does anyone else, I also don't post pix of my grows as in this day and age any pix can be traced to you via the interwebby google stuff. I also don't sell, I used to and I also used to go from Holland and Morocco to the UK, however that was before GYO (grow your own) came into being, now I grow for me and toke with friends, especially on the 20th of April in Hyde Park