Grasscity - Dab Rig Sale - 50% Discount

Banished to the friend zone

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by The Botanist, May 14, 2011.

  1. Don't you blades love this shit?

    I just went from a decent relationship to "just a friend".
    She changed her mind in what seemed like a day. Maybe it was brewing for a couple weeks and it manifested suddenly.
    I don't think she has another guy in mind (trust me, i know this).

    What could this mean? I don't think you'll catch a guy being as indecisive as this. I mean, i even asked her a few weeks ago, "it seems like all you want is a friend". Her response, "no, no, i definitely want more". Exact words. Is it just in a woman's nature to be two-faced?

    Usually i'm sad after a breakup but now i'm just pissed off.
    I'll be honest, Pissed >>>> sad

    Let me give you a visual of my face.

    [​IMG]

    To make things worse i ran out of weed.

    Edit: I have resin, I is set for the day.
     
  2. No.

    You should move on.
     
  3. Very helpful post. I could of thought of that in a coma.
     
  4. Girls do that sometimes man.

    Guys can't figure girls, and the same can be said about guys.
     
  5. Glad you agree.

    If she already told you she wants to be friends, then she does not want you.

    Stop being such a pussy.
     
  6. I've figured this out, once again, i could have thought of this in a coma.
    The question is 'why?'. I'm sorry thinking and contemplating is not your forte but you're not helping in any way.

    Very insightful. Being a pussy = trying to figure something out?
    I'm not sure how women do it, but i think it's possible to get the sand out of your vagina with water.

    [​IMG]

    Edit: No offense LOL
     
  7. What's with the argument? She wants to be friends so be friends with her.

    Can't change the way another person feels.
     
  8. Being friends doesn't entitle me to any sex, making out, or any action whatsoever. Besides, i have friends (that aren't as indecisive).

    Anyway,
    If no one has any other insight besides "shit happens" then let this thread die.
     
  9. #9 Zewz, May 14, 2011
    Last edited by a moderator: Mar 15, 2016
    Can never have too many friends though.
     
  10. That's the million dollar question, and is best answered by the girl that does not want you.

    Get it? DOES NOT WANT YOU.
     
  11. You got me there.

    I have figured this out. Again. I'm literally miles ahead of you dude. Didn't you read what Picard had to say?

    Jeez you're like an itch in my crack that won't go away.
     
  12. You are just mad cause she wont answer your question, which should give you enough balls to move the fuck on.

    "let's just be friends", is like your mom telling you, you can keep your dead dog.

    [​IMG]
     
  13. #13 SonnyCheebah, May 14, 2011
    Last edited by a moderator: Mar 15, 2016
    If you were so damn smart, you would've figured it out then. Either such is the case, or you're denying the truth.
     
  14. In my experience, if she is that indecisive then you may still have a shot. Don't get angry at her, don't overreact like that is her final decision, just play it cool and tell her that you understand. I mean, you can only make it worse by forcing her to think about it. Maybe she's just confused about her feelings and wants some space to sort it out. Tell her that you would like to keep things open and if she does envision you as more than friends, eventually she'll get a hold of you. And while it may take some time to stop analyzing what had happened, it would be best to try to move on mentally in case it really is over.
     
  15. #15 The Botanist, May 14, 2011
    Last edited by a moderator: May 14, 2011
    I haven't asked her. Good try though.

    Your picture is comical but doesn't describe my situation.
    She's the one that is talking to me.
    You keep bringing up "move on". Let me get this shit straight with you.
    She's the one talking to me.
    Now, bring up something else. I'm off all weekend so keep stepping up to the plate, i'll keep smacking you right off.

    That's like saying, "if you were smart then you would have solved the time paradox". Women are more complex than you'd think.

    Nobodies denying the truth?

    She doesn't know i'm angry. But yeah, that's pretty much what i'm shooting for.
     
  16. HAHAHA I love your tough-guy responses. :D

    If you had the balls, you would've asked her, but clearly you are a pussy and rather whine about it on a public forum.

    She wants more, just not with you.

    Now, get angry and respond. :wave:
     
  17. Stop arguing fucking hell.
    OP you're not getting any closer to being with her by arguing with people on a forum.
    And other poster you're not helping him get any closer to this girl by arguing.

    So let's stop all the hate :)
     
  18. HATE? there's no hate here, just pure LOL
     
  19. #19 SonnyCheebah, May 14, 2011
    Last edited by a moderator: Mar 15, 2016
    Analogies only work with the given context. Therefore, that statement is irrelevant. We already know the facts. The problem is that you don't want them to speak for themselves.

    I think so.
     
  20. #20 The Botanist, May 14, 2011
    Last edited by a moderator: May 14, 2011
    The point is not to ask her and figure it out for myself.
    Like i said, i like contemplating this shit. Obviously you don't.
    Once again you're not helping.

    Oh and again, being a pussy = trying to figure something out?

    I feel like i'm rehashing the same shit over and over to you.
    I honestly don't know what to do with you.

    However, i do think i know what you can do. Smoke a bowl(helps me think, maybe it does the same for you) and read every post i've made. Now really think about it. Get a chalkboard and Einstein that shit if you have to.

    I hope you get some insight from your experience.

    I'm asking for insight from other, more experienced blades. Not trying to argue but if that's what it comes down to then so be it.

    The analogy works fine, read it again.
    And no, i don't think so. Read other posts in the thread, get yourself up to speed.

    By your inability to read? Yes, quite the LOL.
     

Share This Page