Alright so I have a girlfriend who when I first got with her, she smoked. Not too often, but not not at all. About two months ago, she told me she swore it off, saying that it just lowered her self respect. Lately, whenever I hang out with my buddys itstead of her, she throws this shit into my face: "Alright go get high" but in that all too familiar way that you know it is a test. So if I chill with my buddys, she thinks im smoking, which she doesnt like. Its really been straining things lately but I love her and besides the area of weed, shes great. FUCK, I dont wanna break up with her, but I dont wanna give up getting high either. Advice? Comprimises? Im at wits end and you dudes are the only ones who would give unbiased advice (with a similar point of view on life as me) because all my friends know her.
If you think weed is the only thing causing problems between you two, give it up. See if that helps. Using in the face of problems with your personal life is a sign of addiction. If you think that perhaps your problems run deeper than simply her disagreeing with your use, try to talk things out.
Its not the fact that I dont wanna gave up weed itself, Its the lifestyle. The people, the places, the good memories.
If your friends are going to stop liking and hanging with you if you stop your cannabis use, you may want to rethink your friendships.