My dad's best friend is married to my mom's best friend. They are getting divorced. (Just like my parents are.) And the mom is going to live with my mom, and my dad's best friend said because I smoke pot, he won't let his kids live with me. But I've grown up with his kids, and considered him a dad of sorts. What should I do? I feel betrayed...And confused, but I do love him. I don't get it. Plus my grampa is dying. Can someone help me out?