Out of all days that i leave my phone at home, my mom is staying home for the arrival of my sister from college. I even thought, "what if my mom goes through my phone?", because i had some marijuana related conversations with friends over the weekend. I mostly forget about it and come home to a serious-faced, 5'4", English Woman getting ready to interrogate me. "hmmm, are you smoking pot?" I then told her "a little bit". and she said " ohhh nooo, i looks more than a little bit." so i just said yeah i have been and told her the normal "its not as bad as _____..." and told her the fact that I'm not some burnout loser. Shes pretty upset even though its technically my 3rd time getting caught. i guess its my own fault for not deleting those messages . Do you guys think its at least a little messed up that she went through my phone? btw, yes I'm 18, a senior in high school and i live with my parents.