Hey GC! I've never asked a girl out ever, I've always have had them come up to me luckily. So as you can tell, I really don't have much experience talking to girls first. But there's this beautiful quiet girl that sits in the back of my math class, and I want to ask her out. I really wouldn't know what to say at first, and knowing myself, I'll probably make things awkward. I just plan on asking her how she did on her test, introducing myself and ask her if she has a class after. If she says she has no class, I'll ask her out for Ice cream or breakfast (whatever sounds better at 10:30 A.M.) I was going to ask her out today, but I couldn't find the courage to go up to her. I guess I'm not confident around girls I like. Any advice?
1. Wait until 1st test/quiz/homework 2. Break the ice: "Howd you do on the test/quiz?" "Hey what did you get for number 3? 3. Seal the deal: "How deep is your vagina?"
sounds like you got it mostly down..I'll comment on class stuff (like a test) then small talk about what we're going for..then ill say im getting some food in the cafeteria if she wants to come and then just keep eating with her a few days or just go for the number right away
Try to walk into class a bit late and see if there's an open seat next to her and ask if anyone is sitting there to break the ice. Say you walk in 15 minutes late, ask what we're doing today in class, ask if you missed anything, just come up with something to start a conversation. During class you can have small side conversations every few minutes about random things which I find works best. Honestly all you have to do is find a reason to start talking to them in the first place and things seem to fall in line. ALSO COMPLIMENTS! COMPLIMENTS COMPLIMENTS COMPLIMENTS! BUT DON'T OVER DUE IT!
Imagine your talking to your boys... Same thing, except no bro, homie etc and avoid cursing. It's that easy. Best of luck OP. Fuck your French, and excuse my Ebonics....
That's a great idea! I just hope there's a seat tomorrow. What do you guys talk about when you're actually on a date. Assuming she says yes to the date, I don't think I'll be able to maintain a conversation for over 5 minutes.
yeah compliments compliments compliments, thats a great way to become a beta orbiter. i think the best bit of advice i see here is to act like you're talking to a dude.
Do you have friends?? Talk to her the same way, except as stated before. It's not rocket science bro. Just talk basic stuff, your opinions and views. Remember, don't fake the funk, women can pick up on you if your trying to be something your not. Fuck your French, and excuse my Ebonics....
just ask her if she would like to have sexual intercourse with you and slap your balls on the table and do a ritualistic dance to win her over back to your den.
Mostly stuff that doesnt make me seem like a lazy stoner lol..i talk about traveling like cool trips ive been on or my hobbies..just ask her the questions girls like to talk and then throw in some flirting..act like you've known her all your life and dont over think it
Don't assume she will talk during class, she may actually want to learn something, esp if she is paying her own way, class time is not for hooking up, after class is the time to approach her, tell her you have been wanting to meet her but didn't want to distract her from class, if she is serious about her study's then maybe a study group with her is an option, and you should really be paying attention to class, what kinda girl wants to go out with the guy that never pays attention in class? Your are not in high school anymore, and if you want her to take you seriously show her that you care about class and are excited to be there. Then when your not in a class that everybody has spent hard earned money on you can relax and be more yourself.
I take my class very seriously. I got the highest grades so far ^___^ yea but obviously i won't distract her during the lecture, I'll talk to her before and after the lecture.
Wasn't trying to imply that you don't, sorry if I came off that way. Was just trying to illustrate the fact that distracting a girl might be a big turn off to her. again sorry if I didn't make myself clear.
this ! Show her the goods if she want it she will bow down Sent from my HTCEVOV4G using Grasscity Forum mobile app
thanks for making lol loud as fuck in the middle of my chem lecture. I felt the eyes of 120 students look in my direction. fml
Sounds robotic.... I don't think you can pick up girls like that. You need to be oh so suavy and natural..