so there's this co-worker who is gay. he's always giving me fucking hugs and shit and says shit like "you're so cute i love you're hair." we're talked about a girl i used to get with so like it's there that i'm straight. he also invited me to go to the gay bar with him and some other dudes and one of the other guys is straight like me and i work with him. but like what the fuck is going on or am i just worrying too much?
He's probably just trying to be nice but let him know firmly that you are in no way interested. Try not to be too blatent about it though. As for the gay bar, they're good fun bro. Most are pretty gentrified for straight people and there's fag hags galore to get with. You don't really have to worry about some guy touching you or shit, just party. Niether at the moment It depends on who the other guy would be. I he's like a real girly guy I'd throw one into him
I totally thought you were straight, idk why... So... effeminate, you act girlish? I was always curious if you do this on purpose or it just happens