Ashes to ashes

I'm so very sorry to hear about your situation. She doesn't sound like much of a friend though. I guess the old saying is true "if you love someone, set them free. If it was meant to be, they'll come back..........if not, hunt them down and shoot them!!!!!!!!!" Sometimes I sit and wonder what exact purpose a relationship serves.

But if you love him that much then maybe you should be the aggressive one. I wish you luck hun and I'll smoke a bowl for you!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I feel bad for you. As a dude, I know for a fact that 99.99% of dudes are assholes. Just a question though, have you actually told him how you feel, or was it something a little more unobtrusive? Dudes are assholes, but they also can't pick up signals to well. And about the porn thing, dudes are also fucked up. We get a sort of sick pleasure from watching people be uncomfortable. My friends and I watched a porn with chicks (fast forwarding through the actual acts, just watching the plot--by the way you can't hear the plot of a porno without laughing your ass off) just to make them uncomfortable.

 

Well, in that case I think the dudes a dumbass. What the hell? You don't watch a porn with an ex-girlfriend, even if you do remain close. Kind like rubbing salt in the wound. I hope he sees the error of his ways (from reading your posts {not just this one but all of them}, I can tell tell you truly that he is missing out and making a grievous error) and hooks up with you sometime. I know it's hard, but don't let it get to you to much. I'm gonna send loads of karma your way.

 

oh god.


that is fucked up.



oh well, if it is any consolation, Im not getting laid anytime soon!

 

oh, the dramas of love, lol. i know 'em all too well. sorry to hear about your bad luck, and i hope things work out between you two.

i had something similar happen to me a while back. there's this girl who i've known for about 4 years now (the one with the shadow showing up on the cat scan). we started off as friends, but after a few months we started dating. things didn't work out due to a lot of issues on both ends, so we called a quits (mutually). after a while we end up going back out. things are going well, and by now i've fallen totally in love with her. well, stuff goes down and we break up again. i tried to get us back together, but it wasn't happening. i got the whole "i'm not ready for a relationship yet" thing. so i said ok...

well, wouldn't ya know. within a few weeks she's got a new b/f, and i'm all like "wtf?" i pretended like it didn't bother me (just want her to be happy afterall), so the whole time i got to watch them flirting and hooking up... made me really depressed. but she's worth waiting for.

lol. to cut it short, we're still awesome friends today. we've been through so much together, and there's still feelings there. it's just not the right timing i guess. for a while i really thought she was the one for me (everyone who knows us swears we're gonna end up getting married, LOL)... but lately things aren't looking that way. it sucks when the person who you love with all your heart doesn't feel the same way.

*sigh*

 

face=needing kicked.

 

My honest opinion. He probably does like you but goes out with other chicks because he knows your always gonna be there. No matter what you too have been through over the years you always make up. Like how long did the 2 of you not talking last? But anyways. i know your in love with him, and it hurts but tell him to either shit or get off the pot and quit playing games with you... But on the other hand yall have been friends awhile and you wouldnt wanna wreck it but hell look at kritosy (spelling?) you probably figured out its "Jane" by now. I should have kidnapped you and your bong and wisked you away when i left... but hey at least you got to hang out with your brother

As for your friend who's trying to get with him when she knows you love him... Who is she?! next time i come down ill beat her ass... No seriously its been done to me and it sucks... Basically fuck that bitch. and the friendship...

You know me... im blunt

 

I'm that bitch! That other girl that lives 90 minutes away!
You want to beat my ass!

Actually, none of you have any idea who I am.
I'm obviously not a friend of Mary's, but I wouldn't mind being one.
I joined grasscity just to make a post to this thread... Why? Wouldn't that just aggravate the situation?
Hopefully not... I don't want trouble; I don't want this to turn into some huge, dramatic, pointless ordeal. I just wanna clarify things a little. I basically don't want to be in the middle of the drama cuz I think it's a little pointless considering a few things....

I am a friend of a friend of Mary's. Nic's my buddy and I live far away from him so I come down to visit him and he takes me to hang out with his friends. I met Mary for the first time a few weeks ago and I've hung out with her 2 or 3 times.

I do think that Ant is a nice guy. I like him, he's definately cool. But never did I intend to "get with him" last night.
I barely know Mary or anything about her life, past or present. I don't know anything about her relationship with Ant. And I definately wasn't trying to take the person she loves.

As for Nic bringing me over to Mary's last night. He was stoned, we all were, so he really wasn't thinking very much. He wasn't doing anything out of spite.

That's all...

 

hmmm...

just out of curiosity, how did you find out about this place/this thread/ etc?

and..welcome..that is, if you intend to stay..or just wanted to come and defend yourself..if that is the case..nice ot have met you and have a nice day....

i was gonna say something else, but forgot.

 

looking through seasoned tokers and saw Mary's hempress name

 

*swallows foot*

hey im sorry. im just mary's buddy and i try to look out for her i dont like people doing any of my friends wrong... you really floored me at first i thought you were just kidding but than i realized you were serious.. i think idunno mj does some strange things to ya... like i hope i didnt piss you off or any thing and if you want me to kick your ass ill b more than happy J/K

This is why i love my relationship status .. id never want to be single again.... If any bitch comes near my man. i will kill her or at least her first born child... but anyways..

if this is how i understand it than this is a tad screwed up i only got on here cuz mary told me about it. i guess i didnt consider her other friends being around.. so if things are cool thats spiffy if not... oh well let the kicking of asses begin..

well my 2 cents stirs up shit so im just gonna take the backseat as long as Mary's happy i dont give a shit

 

woohoo... okay now that i smoked a joint to clear my head hell i wouldnt write anything on here now you never know who's reading it.. but yeah... as far as the brenden/curtosiy or whatever the fuck it is you should always start sleeping with their friends before you break up with them, it makes things interesting and it pisses them off more... Jake was such a jerk im glad i got with Bryson, at least i got something out of those months.

if me and my old man break up Mary will you marry me? and we can cheat on each other like alot but still men are so complicated..

im rambling anywho i dont want you people to hate me this soon so ill stop..