As I'm hitting my mid 30s I'm losing my sex drive. Like I'm not going out to bars and clubs looking for women. I would have a few one night stands or a relationship if a girl initiates it, but I cbf starting it myself. I just sit at home, smoke cigarettes and do housework and work on my music productions. Is this normal? Asking the older crowd if they see this. Feels like I'm just getting my priorities in order.
I've noticed I've changed a lot. I hardly drink alcohol anymore and when I was about 20 I'd drink every day. Never realized how bad my problem was until I stopped.
Stopped drinking, stopped chasing women. You really are getting old. What will you give up when you're in your forties? It never stops. Time will take everything you hold dear and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. When I hit my 70s I gave up stressing over having damp undies from dribbling. Age also brings some benefits but I can't think of any right now.
Everything gets longer as you age. Ears, nose, other parts. Gravity is a bitch. I think the boys taking a plunge when I crap is the worst. I need a ballsack hanger. LMAO. BNW
ya right no there about the ball sack @BrassNwood , mine feels like its dangling near my knees ...mac.
I mean I had an inguinal hernia at 23, now 27 the only way my right nut defies gravity is long jerkin or cold fingers. Least I'm not sitting on it anymore. Sex life, well as stated.
@SkunkRoller Have you been using a lot of porn? That can effect the sex drive. The other stuff is good...you don't drink and you know how to keep your abode clean. Win/win!
Eat some raw oysters. I set my record 8x in 24 hrs at 35 (late 1990's), I could have done better if I wasn't alone lol jk sure I looked like what the cat dragged in the following day. so ???
lots of porn...no porn. partner...no partner. doesn't matter. my palms are not hairy. mid 30's is young. in my 50's.getting the general at attention is fine.completing the objective gets harder so to speak as i get older.
Yes this is a bummer I used to cry true story cause I felt like less of a man you can change a little of that eating right and mild exercise Sent from my SM-G781U using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Lost sex drive, relationship only if she initiates it, sitting at home (alone I assume), cigarettes (bad habit), all sounds like depression to me. You never mentioned anything about a meaningful relationship, love, family, friends or faith. Doesn't sound as if your life is on the right track. As a 70 year old I can tell you that your priorities are not in order. It's not anything bad. It's just that you're missing out on the truly meaningful and beneficial aspects of life.
^^ plus sex drive and testosterone levels go together. After peaking in our late teens, testosterone levels drop off for the rest of our lives and our sex drives go with it. I had some testosterone pellets implanted about ten years ago and all I could think about was sex sex sex. I was relieved when the pellets were finally depleted but it was nice to have an occasional random erection again, some of them even throbbed, something I'd completely forgotten about.
The good ole days when you could knock the bark off a tree with it, remember? & Happy Fathers day! A special day for seniors when the spouse does that special thing , dresses all sexy & asks that question that really gets you hot, "with teeth or without?"