I'm decently heavily tattooed. My reasons are my own, blah-di-blah-blah, but I have always wondered if it turns most guys/girls off. It doesn't really matter, it's just something I've always been curious about. My boyfriend doesn't seem to like the fact I will continue to get more inked as time goes on (it's seriously addicting...) and obviously I worry about how attractive I am to him, but I won't stop getting tattoos for anyone unless I want to stop. So I guess this is why I have been pondering this... what are your opinions? o.o http://i534.photobucket.com/albums/ee344/EmceeKillah/embangs1.jpg That's the best photo I could find showing some of my tattoos. :/
if your tats match your personality and they suit you then it wont be a major turn off. i think its different for every guy, some dudes will be cool with it and others wont. seems like ur bf doesnt mind it. maybe you should try asking for his opinion?
I think there are some tattoos that add to femininity and some that take away from it. The female body is a beautiful thing, and with the right art it can be even more beautiful. I think tattoos are a turn on, guy or girl for me personally, but not having them isn't a turn off, you know? Different strokes for different folks. I think you're super puuurdy and that your boyfriend should be happy with who you are, not the ink you are getting.
I find them attractive. Even if they were covered, and it'd be a bonus if there was a story behind everyone of them.
I did ask his opinion, which is why I have become worried about it. He said he doesn't want me to get a lot of tattoos; and I already have quite a few, I'm definitely not done... meh.
definitely. I don't care about other people; I care about him being attracted to me physically. We are very much in love and I'm not at all worried about that part of our relationship, but it is very important to me that I am physically/sexually attractive to him. Maybe I should just stop caring so much?
I won't have a problem unless they're exposed in public (formal settings). I'm neutral on it but it would be nice girls got tattoos that actually had some meaning and art to it, not some cliche quote.
Honestly fuck what your boyfriend thinks... If you love tattoos, be yourself and get more tattoos... If he can't accept you for who you are fuck that... Don't stop being you because your boyfriends a fag. (no offence to gay people..) I personally find tattoos on chicks sexy as fuck... But they gotta be good tattoos not lame ass stupid shit. If you got sleeves, oh fasho... IDK they always been sexy to me... I wanna get sleeves, but I personally need to design em'. They're going to be 100% unique, so gonna be expensive as fuck and time consuming. I'm actually have been craving getting some ink done... I just don't know what I want... I'll feel more of a sexy motha fucka when I get my first tattoo.. Probably going to be on my wrist between my start of my hand and the start of my wrist is a two lines perfect for a small tattoo... I just don't want it to fuck with my future sleeves... GET TATTED UP!
It can totally be sexy, no doubt then. Too much ink can get to be overwhelming though. If you love your boyfriend more than getting tats, then don't because he's let you get plenty and you don't really NEED more, but if you want to get inked more than you love your boyfriend, time to move on, I'd say.
Fuck that man... it's her body, not her boyfriends body... He aint in control of her... not like hes her father and shes underage wanting tattoos, she's a grown ass woman that wants to finish up her ink.. Her boyfriend didn't let her get tattoos... She chose to get them... You know what I'm sayin? IDK I wouldn't be like: HUNNY CAN I PLEASE GET SOME MORE TATTOOS!!!!! NO! I DONT LIKE MY WOMAN WITH TATTOOS Fuck that, lol...
Well. You are attractive. And they're just artistic bodily additions - it's not like you're physically changing. He should appreciate you for who you are - tattoos included.
All I'm saying is, if he doesn't want his girl tatted up and won't be attracted to her because of it, what is her getting more tattoos going to accomplish other than splitting up? I'm not saying that she's not attractive (she is!), or that she needs his permission, but a relationship is a two way street and one another's appearance is important just like mutual respect is important. If he was getting fat and you weren't into fat dudes you'd ask him to go to the gym, right?
Yeah I understand but if he cannot accept her for who she is, then fuck him... It is what it is... If she's a girl that wants ink, shes gonna get ink. If he's a dick, and can't accept that about her, then fuck him. Wasn't meant to be. This dude can't accept his woman for who she is, suck a dick, get the fuck outta here. It's fucking tattoos... It's not like it's body modification or some shit... She ain't shavin her hair bald... She a sexy ass bitch, with sexy ass tattoos, If he can't appreciate that, then shit, what ever. I'd peace personally, if this fool thinks it is that big of a deal... Seems like a control freak... In a relationship that'll last, you're suppose to be able to accept one and other for who they are... Eventually you're gonna be old as fuck and lose your sexiness, but still love on and other... If he can't even dig your tattoos you'll never reach that point lol...