Anyone else hate how people always ask to smoke with you (basically smoke them out) and then they don't offer to help pay or even mention paying you? I am in that situation now. With several close friends. They have jobs and they know weed is expensive (I buy dank, so its a little more pricey) yet they still don't offer to help pay. Same goes with girls + girlfriends. Fuck, honestly.. I am just baked as shit but this has been bugging me haha. I hate to say no or ask for money cause I am one of those people that hate arguing. And when I do argue I am usually very stubborn and pissed haha. But yeah. Anyone else hate this?
i feel ya man. i just stopped telling my friends when i picked up. then if they asked to smoke i'd be like, i don't have any bro, i'll throw down some money on a dime/dub if you all wanna split it. most of the time they'll be chill with that. but if they say no, then we don't smoke, and i'll toke up by myself later after chillin with them. no biggie. it's worked out real good for me.
I just had a friend who would spend the whole weekend with me. Smoke my bud, eat my food, drink my soda, etc. Doesn't say anything about throwing down for anything and doesn't contribute to anything. I know exactly what your talking about. I would suggest just taking a break from them and/or when you chill with them, don't bring anything. Smoke before you hang out with them.
A friend who never pitches in for weed, is no more of a friend than a friend who expects you to pay for his dinner or other shit you do. Honestly, why has it become acceptable to be a weed mooch, when mooching is one of the least tolerated things in other areas of life. I'd just straight up tell the kids, look guys, I dig chillin with ya and smoking, but I need you guys to pitch in for weed or at least order a pizza haha
Don't hesitate to tell em to pay up, or at least warn them before they try to dive in on you're dank, Remember you paid for it with your on cash, you have every right to say sorry man but if you want some of this you gotta hand in the dunkets. Anyways i don't get into that situation that often cause not all my friends toke and because i prefer smoking by myself or with one or two friends. When your by yourself in your home you're the fucking kind YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT right?
yea it sucks but it happens to me to, all my friends would be fine with helping bring something to a seshion
yeah fuck that i'm not greedy, and we smoke people out our fair share, but when we're about to blaze and people are with us to do so... and are aware we are going to do so... and don't bring anything, it's kinda annoying. i blaze em up anyway, but i'm throwin it in the Volcano, not a blunt. EDIT: is that a frog in the lettuce?
bro dont let them punk you out on your own dank. thats a dick move on their part, basically asking for money all the time with nothing in return.. when someone pulls that shit on me i say "you ain't put IN on this, man" chris tucker style i have no problem smoking homies up but thats when i offer, not just every time they feel like smoking.
People are too afraid to get rid of their current "friends." There's plenty more people out there in the world, and I bet they'll pitch for goods, GO FIND THEM! GO!
Just say you dont have any but you are willing to buy some. Say you only got ten on you so they will have to come up w/ the other ten. If your just getting a g or something. But you know what I mean. That used to bug me but I do this now and have the rest for personal at my house. Works better this way I think.
ya i do hate it because every friend i have expects to be smoked out like if i go to smoke they follow me and just stand there with a WTF face on. I went through an eighth in two days because of that shit. I wanted to cry.
Yeah fuck that shit! My friend is just starting to smoke but he never does it well and never gets high! So he's always asking me for more weed! Guess I'll just stop telling him I picked some up. It pisses me off.
People like that are a dime a dozen. I'm on a very long break from weed but I had too many friends like that. More recently they've changed and started smoking me up instead. Just don't smoke with them if they aren't pitching in. They'll change eventually.
thanks for the comments guys. That sounds like a good idea, the "I am outta weed but ill throw some in and we can get a dub" sounds like a good idea. Thanks again guys haha. I finally got 5$ out of one friend.. but 5$ does not go far. And yeah thats a frog in the salad haha.
not sure how it works in your circles, but with mine, you smoke out, and you get smoked out. It just kind of goes without saying that if you are the only one putting up weed, everyone somking owes you a bowl. To me it doesnt really matter, i like smoking with friends, their company is payment enough.